Someone found love on Sowal...

[Kimmifunn]

I am thrilled to announce that my little brother (Parrothead74) and Beachblonde 393 - both 16 year olds from Birmingham- are going to be going on their first date this weekend. (I call it a date...he calls it going out. We'll see.)

See this thread to take you back to where it all began

SoWal Beaches Forum

Best of luck little Cammy Cam. If you are lucky...you inherited my skills and you can use them on the ladies.

I will be in touch to let you all know how it unfolds!

[TooFarTampa]

I am thrilled to announce that my little brother (Parrothead74) and Beachblonde 393 - both 16 year olds from Birmingham- are going to be going on their first date this weekend. (I call it a date...he calls it going out. We'll see.)

See this thread to take you back to where it all began

http://www.sowal.com/bb/showthread.php?t=1216

Best of luck little Cammy Cam. If you are lucky...you inherited my skills and you can use them on the ladies.

I will be in touch to let you all know how it unfolds!

Do you think your brother will actually speak to you anymore after this?

[kathydwells]

A love connection on SoWal.com..how cool. Good luck guys, and have fun!!!!

[Landlocked]

Do you think your brother will actually speak to you anymore after this?

I was thinking the same thing.

[Sheila]

[QUOTE=Kimmifunn] (I call it a date...he calls it going out. We'll see.)

OK, I never understood this concept when my kids were this age. What the heck is the difference???

[Kimmifunn]

I was thinking the same thing.

He's going to be so mortified! It's what I do though.

[seagrovelover]

How sweet kimmifunn !!! keep us updated........

[Mermaid]

I love a little romance~

And like you I can never keep it to myself! My 16 year old daughter has long since gotten over being mortified at my reporting to the whole world every little detail about her romances. She figured out that she can't change me and like it or not, if she's going out with a cutie, everyone's gonna know about it!

[Kimmifunn]

I love a little romance~

And like you I can never keep it to myself! My 16 year old daughter has long since gotten over being mortified at my reporting to the whole world every little detail about her romances. She figured out that she can't change me and like it or not, if she's going out with a cutie, everyone's gonna know about it!

Cameron and his 30 older sisters (me and all my friends) will ALWAYS keep our nose in his business. Poor thing will never escape it!

[sarahj]

Young love is grand

[RiverOtter]

:idea: Got any pics

[Rita]

Let me get this straight. You WILL be reporting everything on SoWal board? (I'd die if I were your sibling!)

[Kimmifunn]

:idea: Got any pics

Here's the big stud with an old girlfriend of his...he went through a phase of older women.

Please let's hope he doesn't see this!

[TooFarTampa]

He's going to be so mortified! It's what I do though.

[Landlocked]

Man he's a big 16 year old. He's gonna be a big dude. He playing football?

[Kimmifunn]

Man he's a big 16 year old. He's gonna be a big dude. He playing football?

Oh yeah...He plays at Vestavia now. He's on the offensive line. He's a big boy. About 6'3 or 4? He wants to play at Auburn...And wants to be an engineer (didn't we all at 16) so we'll see how that goes...

[Landlocked]

He wants to play at Auburn...

Well that would be good for you. He may be able to get you some leg pulling time with that quarterback dude.

[Kimmifunn]

Well that would be good for you. He may be able to get you some leg pulling time with that quarterback dude.

You are so right! We gotta get this boy to the gym and perfect his craft. This is my chance...

[Landlocked]

You are so right! We gotta get this boy to the gym and perfect his craft. This is my chance...

[Kimmifunn]

I mean...It's not like he has to take me to dinner or anything. Just a few cold ones should suffice- or a bottle of something hard...

[Landlocked]

I mean...It's not like he has to take me to dinner or anything. Just a few cold ones should suffice- or a bottle of something hard...

[kathydwells]

something hard...

?????

[Kimmifunn]

?????

Liquor! Liquor! Oh my gosh...That sounded so bad... :oops:

[kathydwells]

Liquor! Liquor! Oh my gosh...That sounded so bad... :oops:

I just wanted you to elaborate on what that something hard might be. I kinda thought you were talking about liquor, but just wanted to make sure.

[Diane4145]

This gives me hope! Guess if I'd make myself available, I might find it too, huh? I've had such lame excuses in men, I'm a little jaded! I've yet to meet many, with backbone! And what's up with men and their insecurities? When a woman looks pretty good and might be successful, they seem to be so threatened! No offense guys on this board, you're "the exception, I'm sure! I have a Yorkie named Twinky, that's given me so much joy! I've oftened said, "I'd rather be home playing with my Twinky"! So far, I've probably had lots more peace! Though I'm not gay, I find the following, interesting! Just sign me, STILL HOPEFUL! http://www.gaylinkcontent.com/storyd...m?storyid=2079

Are You Jaded?
By Jesse Trautmann

Have you ever been called jaded before? I have been many times but I've always managed to dismiss these accusations with stride. If you're a sarcastic, slightly cynical and rather pessimistic individual such as myself it can be difficult to determine.

What is 'jaded' anyway? The dictionary reads: tired out or lacking enthusiasm after having had too much of something. The common social definition follows an all too familiar storyline. You've recently been dumped by your boyfriend (whom you loved so much) and you're out at a bar. You raise your glass and your friends join in as you make a toast to swear off men for good. Alas you are jaded.

Unfortunately this is only the tip of the iceberg. I've always categorized it as an emotion, like angry or sad, something you feel at a particular point in time. Emotions are instant reactions in which yourself as well as others are able to recognize immediately. Becoming jaded is a process that's undetectable until it's too late. It creeps up on you like vodka; you have a few not feeling anything, than bang, out of nowhere you're smashed.

This is when things can get out of control, more importantly out of your control. You suddenly have low self-esteem thinking no one is interested in you saying things like ' I don't believe in love' or ' I believe in love, but don't believe it can happen to me.' Being jaded is one's subconscious decision to be cut off from the rest of the world. You can physically be around other people but emotionally you're disconnected. Most people are in denial of there jadedness even when their friends, family, and dates call them on it. Even if you still have a social life with friends and have random short term relationships such as dating or casual sex this doesn't mean you're not jaded.

Excessive partying will help take your mind off things for a while but when the party's over rebounding with a bottle or pill leaves you worse off then when you started. Avoiding the problem will only make it worse.

There are many different forms and levels of jadedness one can 'suffer' from, and whether or not you pass the point of no return is entirely up to you. Here are some of the most common states of jadedness people experience and ways to beat them.

In Life

Do you constantly complain about your life, finding yourself consumed by the negative details of situations? Are you convinced that everyone is out to get you? Dating, trying to meet new people and keeping strong friendships with this outlook on life is impossible. There is a fine line between being jaded and being just plain bitter and if your friends roll their eyes every time you bring up a problem then you've definitely crossed it. Start thinking about you and how you can climb out of this hole. It's time to take care of money issues, the job you hate, family and or social stresses, health problems, pretty much anything and everything that's making you a total bi-ach. Keep in mind that these things take time but in the end you'll find yourself ready to take on a new day.

Bad Dates

So you've given up and finally decided to throw in the towel. After a string of bad dates with a troll, Mr. Boring and a narcissistic asshole you've reached you're boiling point and enough is enough. Sorry sweetie but this isn't a valid reason to give up, it's the perfect reason to keep on truckin'. The essence of dating is to endure awful ones because it equips you with a filtration system. This system helps you determine what you are looking for and more importantly what qualities and characteristics you don't want in a mate. Plus bad dates make for great stories to tell your friends during cocktail hour!

One Way Love

Being in love with someone who doesn't love you back can be the harshest form of being jaded. Usually this person is a close friend (who may or may not know your true feelings) whom you believe is the only one for you, so you wait, hoping that one day he will suddenly reciprocate the passion you feel. This 'he's the only one for me' trap keeps you in a constant state of jadedness because it stops you from giving other guys a real chance. Well it's time for a reality check; Give up! This may be one of the only instances in life were giving up is totally acceptable. The biggest obstacle with overcoming this situation is realizing you might have to lose a great friend in order to get over him, but sacrifices for your own emotional health must be made.

Cheated On

If you've been cheated on I offer two suggestions. Seek professional help or Lorena Bobbit, whichever one works better for you.

After a Breakup

In this category if you were the 'dumper' or if the breakup was truly mutual than you're off the hook but if you were the 'dumpee' this can be a serious catalyst for being jaded. You're heartbroken, helpless and howling at the moon every night now that you're alone and as time passes you stay this way believing there is no one else for you. What you have to realize is that you're not alone; millions of others are suffering from broken hearts too. It could be your boss, the person beside you on the subway, even Jennifer Lopez. We all get hurt but life moves on and so must you! Acknowledge the fact that you will miss your ex, so miss him, but stand your ground and do not give in. If you attempt to keep him in your life, even in small ways, you will remain jaded so here are the three big don'ts with an ex. 1) Drunken messages. It looks pathetic on your part, and not only will you regret it in the morning but the slurred message probably made little to no sense. 2) Compete. If you see him with someone new it doesn't mean you should be too. Don't feel you have something to prove. 3) Attempt to be friends. Maybe in time but for now your ability to move on involves him completely cut off. Remember out of sight, eventually out of heart.

Many people put themselves out there in what looks like an attempt to get back on the horse but really they're out there searching for someone to save them. This is a very unhealthy and unsuccessful way to try to move on with your life and get back in the game. Just because you're single doesn't mean you have to date, in fact if you've been hurt by someone it's better to put dating on the back burner until you've fully healed. For some people plunging into new relationships as soon as possible works, but for most, including myself, it is damaging. There is a huge difference between being single and being available. It's ok to be jaded; it's a natural part of the healing process. Jaded attitudes can be overcome if you are strong enough to face them. When you confront the things that hurt you they lose their power. So embrace it as long as you plan on getting out of it.

I am thrilled to announce that my little brother (Parrothead74) and Beachblonde 393 - both 16 year olds from Birmingham- are going to be going on their first date this weekend. (I call it a date...he calls it going out. We'll see.)

See this thread to take you back to where it all began

http://www.sowal.com/bb/showthread.php?t=1216

Best of luck little Cammy Cam. If you are lucky...you inherited my skills and you can use them on the ladies.

I will be in touch to let you all know how it unfolds!

[luvthebeach]

Please let's hope he doesn't see this!

oh man, if he does, you're REALLY in trouble!

[Kimmifunn]

oh man, if he does, you're REALLY in trouble!

You know...what worries me is the retailation. It could get ugly guys...

[luvthebeach]

You know...what worries me is the retailation. It could get ugly guys...

[Miss Kitty]

Quotes from Diane..."I'd rather be at home playing with my Twinky"! (insert that blue smilie with hair rising way up!!!)

Kimmi...I remember you trying to play matchmaker...congrats girl!

[whiteyfunn]

Here's the big stud with an old girlfriend of his...he went through a phase of older women.

Please let's hope he doesn't see this!

Talk about never speaking to you again.....

[whiteyfunn]

Cue the circus music!

[Parrothead74]

I Hate You!

[whiteyfunn]

I Hate You!

Now now those are hateful words...

You might thank her one day....at your wedding to beach blonde or whoever it might be.

[Miss Kitty]

I Hate You!

Ahhh....the wonderous love between siblings! When's your date?

[kurt]

I Hate You!

Post some pics from the date!

[Kimmifunn]

I Hate You!

Cameron...Really? You know you love it. You may actually be up for Brianne this New Year's...

You have to let us know how it goes.

[Kimmifunn]

Ok...so last night was the big night. Of course Cameron (Parrothead74) didn't give me details knowing that Jessifunn, Wlaner and I were waiting with baited breath.

I will be in touch with the gorey details though. Stay posted!

[Kimmifunn]

I have the dirt! Jessifunn and I just got on 3 way with Cameoron.

So they went out- Cameron and her friends- and they totally hit it off. Cameron said that she's going to be his girlfriend.

Haha! I love it.

Let's see if they can make it through the Vestavia/Hoover football game this friday. That's Vestavia's biggest rival and Hoover lost last week...This could be good...

I will keep you all posted.

Kurt- I asked for pictures and they don't have any together yet. Jessifunn told him he has to do what you say so hopefully they will follow soon!

[whiteyfunn]

Wait...Kimmifunn that's so weird. I almost called Cam to see how it went. We are rooting for the little fella.

So where's beachblonde? She hasn't been on forever.

Kimmifunn please update hourly.

[Kimmifunn]

Wait...Kimmifunn that's so weird. I almost called Cam to see how it went. We are rooting for the little fella.

So where's beachblonde? She hasn't been on forever.

Kimmifunn please update hourly.

Call me now and you can hear him talk about it. We'll call him on 3-way. He also insulted my love life. He just doesn't get the "love em and leave em" view on things. He's quite the relationship man.

Not sure where she's been. For his sake I hope she doesn't! I think he gave her a heads up about the thread though.

[Beachblonde393]

Oh jeez, I didn't know this thing went on for 2 pages. haha you guys are nuts

[Kimmifunn]

Oh jeez, I didn't know this thing went on for 2 pages. haha you guys are nuts

Ahh! We're just trying to embarass him! He had great things to say about you though! Hope ya'll had a great time!!!!

[Beach Crazy]

So what's brewing for the weekend????? Will Cameron and Beachblonde393 go out again???

[Kimmifunn]

So what's brewing for the weekend????? Will Cameron and Beachblonde393 go out again???

Well actually Vestavia (Cameron) and Hoover (Beachblonde393) are playing tonight (football). This is a HUGE rivalry so I think they are going to stay apart on Friday. But who knows...they could go out after the game. He told me he was going to try and see her again before the weekend, but if not he'd see her on Saturday. I talked to him one day and he was going to go over to her house...but it was too late.

He calls her his girlfriend...so something seemed to work out! He's also pumped about New Year's because she's going to be down in Sowal as well. He's just making me promise that me and my friends don't embarrass him. Yeah right!

Kurt...this could be a first. I think we actually have another love connection about to happen though...but I can't say anything about that...the person would KILL me.

[kurt]

Well actually Vestavia (Cameron) and Hoover (Beachblonde393) are playing tonight (football). This is a HUGE rivalry so I think they are going to stay apart on Friday. But who knows...they could go out after the game. He told me he was going to try and see her again before the weekend, but if not he'd see her on Saturday. I talked to him one day and he was going to go over to her house...but it was too late.

He calls her his girlfriend...so something seemed to work out! He's also pumped about New Year's because she's going to be down in Sowal as well. He's just making me promise that me and my friends don't embarrass him. Yeah right!

Kurt...this could be a first. I think we actually have another love connection about to happen though...but I can't say anything about that...the person would KILL me.

You see, love was my plan all along.

[jessifunn]

cameron might get a big fat kiss at midnioght this new years!!!

[Kimmifunn]

You see, love was my plan all along.

Get your tux ready. We've been discussing the Sowal wedding party!

[jessifunn]

good idea they could do their vows on sowal in a marriage thread.

[kurt]

good idea they could do their vows on sowal in a marriage thread.

Whoah - you're getting way too far ahead of yourself. We haven't even had the premarital sex thread yet!

[Kimmifunn]

Whoah - you're getting way too far ahead of yourself. We haven't even had the premarital sex thread yet!

There's no time like the present!