Paula...your celebration sounds wonderful! Our family is small and I always felt my kids missed out on a large extended group of relatives.
Our family is now very small, so we usually "import" other people. Last night it was at my mom's- the 4 Dargs, Bdarg's mom, my best friend, her husband and 2 kids, including her MIL (too many MILs!), and another couple with a little girl that Mom knew from church and they didn't have family in town. It was fun, and my family members behave much better when there are "non-family" members around. We had a great time- and I have what's left of Mr. Turkey simmering in the stock pot now!
Poor Paw Paw! Make sure you tell him he has coast-to-coast sympathy for his thumb! Guess he can't hitchhike now!