I'm not trying to be argumentative, and I am not sure what gave you that impression. You misconstrued how I said something, and I was trying to clarify what I meant. I am also not being negative...I am pointing out the obvious hurdles you will have to cross to make this a reality. I am sorry if my lack of an email to you offended you. I do not have kids, nor do I ever intend to have kids. I also work full time, and have other things on my plate. I was throwing out some brainstorming ideas for you. Maybe if I had kids, or if I were retired and had lots of free time, I'd do more, but alas, I don't.
I think your heart is in the right place, and I think you could do some good in the community if you started small and gradually tried to turn this into something bigger. I think a community garden hosted on school grounds could be a good jumping off point.
I have never made the argument that what they are doing right now is better for the children in our county. In fact, I haven't even made any sort of argument that shoots you down or disagrees with you. All of my posts were about the logistics of doing something like this, and considering the various angles people are going to try to counter you with.
I'm sorry if you've some how gotten the wrong idea. You should try to be a bit more diplomatic and not bristle when someone points out logistical hurdles. It's not like you are going to be able to walk into the school cafeteria and tell them "This is how it's going to be!" and have everybody fall in line. There is going to be pushback. There are going to be budgetary concerns, and the people you bring this idea to who actually wield the power to make it a reality are going to want hard numbers and facts. There are also likely food companies with current contracts with the school district who will not be happy to be pushed out and lose those contracts. They will fight to continue to have that source of income. If you try to get a plan rolling to push them out, they will almost certainly come back with counter points to try to maintain how things currently operate.
In conclusion, dial back the martyrdom back a little. I wish you luck, and I do hope you get something accomplished. It's a nice idea that will take a TON of work to turn into a reality, but it definitely can be done.