Hey...if this young lady can plop down that amount of "Disney" money, she deserves her priviacy just like the rest of us. As far as the locked beach access, it's a small inconvienience for living in paradise.
I do agree that the only stalkers that she will have to worry about are the teens and tweens, once they find out where she is.
Please, when you finally figure out, find out, or guess her location, "Do not publish it here or anywhere else." Let our new neighbor, have her moments of peace and quiet hee in paradise.