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ItzKatzTime avatar
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:wave: Hi Everyone!

I usually keep all this to myself, but I'm overwhelmed and need your prayers and thoughts.:blush:

Over the past 15 years I've battled with Fibromyalgia and Chronic fatigue syndrome. I have tried many things....some worked and some were a waste of time and money. It's hard for people around you to understand, as one day you may be on top of the world and the next three days or more you can't move from the bed to the bathroom. :idontno: It is sometimes even harder to get a physician to believe you.:confused: Fortunately I have had some good Doctors.

Fibromyalgia is a burning painful feeling in your muscles. This makes it hard to pickup things and to move your limbs without a lot of pain. CFS is debillitating and the most frustrating! Usually comes with a cough you can't seem to get rid of, intense fatigue, low grade fever, need for sleep, sleep, sleep. BUT also includes insomnia....that's the double edge sword about CFS.

So it you don't see me very much at the Cafe you'll know I'm at home wishing I could greet you. I hate this because I love working at night ans seeing all my :wave: :wub: SoWal friends. I don't really want to change to lunch, but we'll see. My Doctor says I need to stop at 5:00 p.m. and start my evening of rest.:yikes: Okay everyone who knows how hard it is to stop at 5:00 in the afternoon raise your hand. :lolabove: I thought so!!!!

I :wub: :wub: :wub: you all!
ItzKatzTime
:wave: Kat:roll:

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Cheering472 avatar
SoWal Insider
#52
Thanks everyone...I :wub: you soooo much. I try to get rest but it comes a little here and a little there. I have a lot on my mind these dayz and that doesn't help either. I really have a burden about children walking or riding their bikes alone. Every one that visits my daughter knows my rule NGWA....No Girl Walks Alone.

Thanks again....it helps me so very much to keep getting your posts.

Choose Love!;-)

Hi Kat. Good to see your post. You've been on my mind. I totally agree with your NGWA, keep reminding them. I pushed this with my daughter for years. God love her, I think I scared her because she became everyones mom. It stuck with her too. As she grew up, they had a "bar buddy" system. When Natalee Holloway went missing in Aruba, Beth said "See what can happen, she wasn't with her buddy". You are a smart mom Kat. :wave:
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Skunky
#53
Kat, it might ease you a bit to remember that the children in this country are very safe, even if they go places by themselves. It is hard to believe this based on the media coverage given to horrific abductions, online predators, school violence, etc, etc, but the fact is that there are very few children abducted in this country each year, and there isn't any trend that suggests the problem is increasing. The fact is, the overwhelming majority of 'kidnappings' are done by a non-custodial parent or family acquantaince, yet these incidents are statistically counted as kidnappings, and almost never are these children harmed. Since the FBI does not keep a count of 'kipnappings performed by total strangers', it is difficult to tease out how many of these occur a year, but it constitutes a tiny fraction of total kidnappings.

You would never guess this by watching the news, though. It seems that every night between O'Reilly, VanSustren and Grace, Dateline, etc. you would figure that predators are everywhere. This just isn't the case;so much time is given to the topic because they know concerned parents will tune in to get the daily dose of horror....if it bleeds, it leads, as they say in the business.

Am I saying you should throw safety to the wind? Of course not! Teach your kids to use common sense when they go anywhere;they are smarter than we give them credit for! I find it interesting that we accept the fact that kids are the most technically savvy when it comes to computers, but once they get online we strip this quality from them and fear that they are a few clicks away from being led to the mall by a pedophile who will abduct them!

I hope this helps a bit;I have found that the best tonic for our nerves might be to turn off the TV!
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bean
#54
IMHO, you can never be too careful. We get reports from school every so often ( they come home in their backpacks) of strangers in cars approaching kids on their way to or from school. Do you know how easy it would be to grab a child and throw them in the car? If there are 2 it would probably not happen! And it's not just girls. Very recently in Ohio not far from us a guy was arrested at a summer camp for molesting young boys. He had actually spent a week volunteering at the camp I send my kids to. He did have a previous record but his recent background check didn't show anything b/c his most recent conviction was 8 years ago in another state. I work in children's ministry at my church and our volunteers go through state and federal checks and we have a 2 adult rule. No one EVER should be left alone in a class or with a child at any time.

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Skunky
#55
I agree, parents should be careful, but nobody should be paralyzed with fear over their kids getting abducted. By the way, I remember bringing home notes from school warning of LSD pushers applying the drug to temporary Disney tatoos and giving it to local children who thus became 'hooked'...needless to say, this resulted in parental alarm, but as it turned out, it was an urban legend, no local kids were in danger nor were any given LSD;furthermore, LSD is not addictive. That was a good opportunity for parents to discuss drug abuse, but it instead resulted in hysteria.
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bean
#56
I agree, parents should be careful, but nobody should be paralyzed with fear over their kids getting abducted. By the way, I remember bringing home notes from school warning of LSD pushers applying the drug to temporary Disney tatoos and giving it to local children who thus became 'hooked'...needless to say, this resulted in parental alarm, but as it turned out, it was an urban legend, no local kids were in danger nor were any given LSD;furthermore, LSD is not addictive. That was a good opportunity for parents to discuss drug abuse, but it instead resulted in hysteria.

Definetly, that is no way to live.
sandflea avatar
Beach Lover
#57
I agree that it shouldn't paralyze you, but it suuuuuuure isn't as safe as it was when I was a kid. I don't have any kids yet but I can see where'd I'd be over protective. Too many freaks out there.
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Skunky
#58
I agree that it shouldn't paralyze you, but it suuuuuuure isn't as safe as it was when I was a kid. I don't have any kids yet but I can see where'd I'd be over protective. Too many freaks out there.

It isn't?
http://www.ojp.gov/bjs/glance/tables/vagetab.htm
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Skunky
#60
Nothing happened to me :D
Bingo. I can't think of a better time or place to be a child than NOW and HERE!:biggrin:
Miss Kitty avatar
Meow
#61
I agree, parents should be careful, but nobody should be paralyzed with fear over their kids getting abducted. By the way, I remember bringing home notes from school warning of LSD pushers applying the drug to temporary Disney tatoos and giving it to local children who thus became 'hooked'...needless to say, this resulted in parental alarm, but as it turned out, it was an urban legend, no local kids were in danger nor were any given LSD;furthermore, LSD is not addictive. That was a good opportunity for parents to discuss drug abuse, but it instead resulted in hysteria.

Of course, in Dallas they mix heroin with Tylenol Cold and call it Cheese. It's sold as a cheap fun thrill and it kills. It has really devastated some of the jr. high's in Dallas.
SoWal Insider
#62
Of course, in Dallas they mix heroin with Tylenol Cold and call it Cheese. It's sold as a cheap fun thrill and it kills. It has really devastated some of the jr. high's in Dallas.
I read an article about this cheese! So strange that it's primarily in Dallas.
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bean
#63
Of course, in Dallas they mix heroin with Tylenol Cold and call it Cheese. It's sold as a cheap fun thrill and it kills. It has really devastated some of the jr. high's in Dallas.


:eek: I'm glad they are trying to stop this from spreading to other areas. I still want to buy Tylenol Cold over the counter. Of course that is not the only reason. Keeping kids safe is still #1.
Drug czar lauds Dallas' fight against 'cheese'

Federal official visits area, meets with local task force


12:00 AM CDT on Thursday, August 2, 2007
By TAWNELL D. HOBBS / The Dallas Morning News
tdhobbs@dallasnews.com

President Bush's drug czar praised Dallas leaders Wednesday for fighting "cheese" heroin use among youths – a move he said is vital to preventing its spread to other parts of the country.

"That's one of the reasons we're trying to watch this closely," John Walters, director of the White House Office of National Drug Control Policy, said during a news conference Wednesday at Dallas Independent School District headquarters.

Mr. Walters spoke after receiving a briefing from the Cheese Heroin Task Force. DISD Superintendent Michael Hinojosa, Dallas County District Attorney Craig Watkins and some parents whose children died of cheese were among those who attended the briefing, which was closed to the public.

Mr. Walters said the community's effort to come together to fight cheese is impressive. The mix of black tar heroin and crushed nighttime cold tablets has been blamed for the deaths of 23 area teens since January 2005.

"I came here to hear from those who are working against this terrible phenomenon," Mr. Walters said.

Cheese surfaced in five northwest Dallas schools this past school year. The drug, which sells for as little as $2 a hit, has greatly concerned health-care providers, law enforcement and school district officials because of its accessibility and addictiveness. It has been known to be used by kids as young as 10.

Mr. Walters said he is working with Sen. John Cornyn, R-Texas, to add money to a national media campaign to address cheese.

Mr. Walters also announced Wednesday that six Texas school districts, including Ennis, will receive new federal grants, totaling $1.67 million, to help fund random student drug testing. He said such testing could be used as a public health tool to deter students from using illegal drugs and help with early intervention.

The Ennis district, about 40 miles south of Dallas, will receive $148,566 over three years. Other districts receiving grant money are Bloomington, Friendswood, Ganado, La Porte and Mission Consolidated school district.

Ennis Superintendent Eddie Dunn said his school board recently voted to do random drug testing.

"It seems to me as adults we should be champions of hope; illegal drugs kill hope, and we can't let that happen," Dr. Dunn said during the news conference.

Mr. Walters acknowledged that random drug testing is controversial.

Some opponents have said it violates students' civil rights. But Mr. Walters said students who test positive in random tests cannot be punished.

The Dallas school district is using a federal grant for a voluntary drug testing program that requires parental permission. The students don't know when they will be tested.

Linda Yater, DISD's executive director for student services, said that 12,580 students in sixth grade and up were tested last year, and that 97 percent were drug-free.

The No. 1 drug students tested positive for was marijuana, followed by methamphetamine and then heroin.

Michelle Hemm, director at Phoenix Academy of Dallas, a 32-bed private, residential treatment center, said she hopes the attention to cheese will help get funding for residential care for people hooked on the drug.

"I'm hopeful that ... the powers that be will look at Dallas," she said. "The fact that people have rallied behind this is great."

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Beach Lover
#64
Here is one of the best herb books:

http://www.mothernature.com/Library/Bookshelf/Books/41/33.cfm

See Contents in left column.

For inflammation, the author (James Duke PhD) recommends chamomile tea, licorice root (in moderation), etc.

A good online source of bulk organic herbs is Mountain Rose Herbs (WA).

Take care... You seem to be good at that.
And God bless you! Amen.
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#67
Sending Love​



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Beach Lover
#68
Amen!
Miss Kitty avatar
Meow
#69
Thank you, LW...I needed that. I have another funeral today...:(
DD avatar
SoWal Expert
#70
Thank you, LW...I needed that. I have another funeral today...:(

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Cheering472 avatar
SoWal Insider
#71
Thank you, LW...I needed that. I have another funeral today...:(

Oh no :cry:
kathydwells avatar
Darlene is my middle name, not my nickname
#72
Thank you, LW...I needed that. I have another funeral today...:(

So sorry. :cry:
LightWorker avatar
Beach Fanatic
#73
Thank you, LW...I needed that. I have another funeral today...:(



Sending you Peace,and all your friends are here for you. If you need anything just meow!! :blush:
ItzKatzTime avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#74
Miss Kitty I wub you!:wub: I know it's a sad time, but I'm going to think happy thoughts for you.

;-) Kat
ItzKatzTime avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#75
Your tar looks like and Angel Dog. :wub: I love it KathyD!:clap::wave:
Miss Kitty avatar
Meow
#76
Miss Kitty I wub you!:wub: I know it's a sad time, but I'm going to think happy thoughts for you.

;-) Kat

Thank you Kat!!!! It was an old friend from when sarafunn was in elementary school. We had worked on fund raising together. She was good at keeping up and called every once in a while to catch up even though our girls went on to other schools. Apparently, she had a bad stroke a few years ago (I though she had moved up to her home in MI, which she adored) :( and never really got better. That led to more small strokes and she finally succumbed to a heart attack...she had just turned 55. The blessing...her daughter had married and she told me she was expecting :wub: !!! I hugged her father and told him how happy I was about him being a grandfather! He is over the moon and can't wait to spoil it rotten! ;-) I have had two of these funerals (friends) this summer and it is just so alarming and sad.

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