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Grass is greener on the other side?

lost in sowal avatar
Beach Comber
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So, it has come to my attention that another male has walked away from a perfectly good relationship (I.e. A ring was expected by the girlfriend) yet after a weekend of travel there was a rat (naked, unidentified female) in the house. The point I want to make is this, women decide the dating arena, men don't. I am a male and I appreciate that. Now, let's work through this. A man feels like he is a hot commodity so he tries to pick up a younger woman. Now, he will NOT be 100% succesful. Let's switch sides. An older woman goes after a younger guy and she offers a young man an "experience" that will make EVERYONE happy. This is a family website so I won't elaborate 🙂

Now, let's be honest. A man (hell a kid at 13 like Lourtenaus boy) would take a shot. My point is simple. A man, or all men should be very careful because if women TRULY learn their POWER, Men are SCREWED as they can have all the young, hard body men because they are willing to experiment. As others say, I am now falling off my male soapbox.

Ps I am male, married and love my wife!!

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Allifunn avatar
FunnChef - AlisonCooks.com
#2
So, it has come to my attention that another male has walked away from a perfectly good relationship (I.e. A ring was expected by the girlfriend) yet after a weekend of travel there was a rat (naked, unidentified female) in the house. The point I want to make is this, women decide the dating arena, men don't. I am a male and I appreciate that. Now, let's work through this. A man feels like he is a hot commodity so he tries to pick up a younger woman. Now, he will NOT be 100% succesful. Let's switch sides. An older woman goes after a younger guy and she offers a young man an "experience" that will make EVERYONE happy. This is a family website so I won't elaborate 🙂

Now, let's be honest. A man (hell a kid at 13 like Lourtenaus boy) would take a shot. My point is simple. A man, or all men should be very careful because if women TRULY learn their POWER, Men are SCREWED as they can have all the young, hard body men because they are willing to experiment. As others say, I am now falling off my male soapbox.

Ps I am male, married and love my wife!!
:confused: :confused: :idontno: :idontno: :confused: :confused: you are lost in SoWal...I am lost in your thread???????? I can not make heads or tails of it...:confused:
ktschris avatar
Beach Fanatic
#3
:lolabove: I'm sooo glad you are too. I thought it was just me.

But on a serious note...it sounds like lost needs to talk :idontno:
DD avatar
SoWal Expert
#4
:confused: :idontno: :confused:
lindatat avatar
quirty
#5
I'm with the rest of these ladies. Must be a guy thing. But vent away if you must, lost in sowal!
audie avatar
fartblossom
#6
:popcorn:
Lady D avatar
SoWal Insider
#7
:( Apparently said girlfriend was expecting boyfriend to surprise her with an engagement ring but instead probably caught him and said other female in a compromising situation. May not be right. Better to find out now then after the I Do's. But unfortunately, that goes on too much also! Sad! Lost in sowal, I applaud what you said at the end of your post. All men need to be like you! But unfortunately they are not! Vows don't mean alot anymore to some.
Kurt avatar
Admin
#8
The majority of women will never learn their true power as long as the majority of women continue to participate in a system that devalues their own sex. It is a vicious circle powered by fear, jealousy and greed.

Thus the facelift. :lol:
Cheering472 avatar
SoWal Insider
#9
Move over Audie :popcorn:
Smiling JOe avatar
SoWal Expert
#10
:( Apparently said girlfriend was expecting boyfriend to surprise her with an engagement ring but instead probably caught him and said other female in a compromising situation. May not be right. Better to find out now then after the I Do's. But unfortunately, that goes on too much also! Sad! Lost in sowal, I applaud what you said at the end of your post. All men need to be like you! But unfortunately they are not! Vows don't mean alot anymore to some.

:idontno: :nono1: Shame on you ladydebubba! I know many women who cheat on their spouse, too. It is not just a man thing.
Miss Kitty avatar
Meow
#11
Can't find a pole long enough to join in here!
steele mama avatar
Beach Fanatic
#12
:( Apparently said girlfriend was expecting boyfriend to surprise her with an engagement ring but instead probably caught him and said other female in a compromising situation. May not be right. Better to find out now then after the I Do's. But unfortunately, that goes on too much also! Sad! Lost in sowal, I applaud what you said at the end of your post. All men need to be like you! But unfortunately they are not! Vows don't mean alot anymore to some.
And he seems to be blaming the woman for making the man do it. She with all her power! "But it was the woman, she looked at me." :roll:
PS Who broke up?
Beach Lover
#13
And he seems to be blaming the woman for making the man do it. She with all her power! "But it was the woman, she looked at me." :roll:
PS Who broke up?

PS....Who cares? :idontno: :idontno:
Bob avatar
SoWal Insider
#14
The majority of women will never learn their true power as long as the majority of women continue to participate in a system that devalues their own sex. It is a vicious circle powered by fear, jealousy and greed.

Thus the facelift. :lol:
Kurt, that last statement is so deep, I think I need a lifeguard.
audie avatar
fartblossom
#15
Move over Audie :popcorn:

would you go get me a coke please ? and some extra napkins for this buttery popcorn ? hee hee
Cheering472 avatar
SoWal Insider
#16
would you go get me a coke please ? and some extra napkins for this buttery popcorn ? hee hee

Oh yes, I'm up anyway. Save my seat.
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little sugar
#17
PS....Who cares? :idontno: :idontno:


PS......I agree ;-)
ShallowsNole avatar
Beach Fanatic
#18
The grass is ALWAYS greener on the other side, until you repeatedly pee on it and it turns browns and dies too. :(

Moral - stay where you are, nurture some new growth, and remember to cherish it and not pee on it. :wub:
steele mama avatar
Beach Fanatic
#19
I think we lost lost.:idontno:
Cheering472 avatar
SoWal Insider
#20
On to greener pastures???

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