We have this discussion when we take the kids out to eat. Maybe once a week and it's become the running joke at the table now. When my son orders a hamburger one of the following 2 things happens: 1) the server asks "would you like cheese on that?" - the son always politely says no, but would like to say - "if I wanted cheese then I would have ordered a cheeseburger" 2) the server doesn't ask about cheese and inevitably the hamburger comes as a cheeseburger. When we say - "this was suppose to be a hamburger" server replies "oh, you didn't want cheese?" mom says "well then he would have ordered a cheeseburger instead of a hamburger" (mom tries to say this with a smile & asks the server to bring a hamburger back & still leaves a decent tip) Why is it that places do this? It seems the burger automatically comes with cheese unless otherwise specified, but on the menu it's clearly a hamburger and if you add cheese then it costs extra... When we go to a fast food place (which is not often) and we order a hamburger we get a hamburger. Why can't sit down restaurants do the same?