My NFL boyfriend LEFT ME A MESSAGE last night at 9 saying he wasn't going to be able to come into the city tonight because:
1. He's sick
2. The MTA strike
Please. I'm over it.
Do we say screw it and cut losses since who knows what really could happen... or do we say "Oh too bad, he's sick, maybe next time?"
I'm thinking the first.
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CilCilBeach FanaticAmelia Island, FL1,491 postsJoined View profileMessageBeach Fanatic
CilBeach FanaticAmelia Island, FL1,491 postsJoined View profileMessageBeach FanaticSorry this has happened, Kimmy.::hugs::
I dunno, I cut a lot of slack for boyfriends, and never regretted it. But you can't be a doormat, either. If your guts say dump, then dump. His loss.
I dunno, I cut a lot of slack for boyfriends, and never regretted it. But you can't be a doormat, either. If your guts say dump, then dump. His loss.
kathydwellskathydwellsDarlene is my middle name, not my nicknameLacey's Spring, Alabama13,303 postsJoined View profileMessageDarlene is my middle name, not my nickname
kathydwellsDarlene is my middle name, not my nicknameLacey's Spring, Alabama13,303 postsJoined View profileMessageDarlene is my middle name, not my nicknameFollow your heart Kimmi...it will lead you the right direction! I am sorry though, because I know you were so looking forward to this. Go have a drink!
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Beachlover2Beach FanaticSoWal819 postsJoined View profileMessageBeach FanaticKimmi
Where is he - you said he couldn't come into the city - is he on the left coast or is he in the area? If he is close by - he should make a better effort.
Where is he - you said he couldn't come into the city - is he on the left coast or is he in the area? If he is close by - he should make a better effort.
KimmiHe's in Connecticut visiting family for the holidays! He does live in LA though. All he has to do is hop on the Metro North and he's here.
Where is he - you said he couldn't come into the city - is he on the left coast or is he in the area? If he is close by - he should make a better effort.
If he wanted to be here...he would be here.
I have officially dropped all care and concern for the situation. And when that happens, it's hard to get back my attention.
I think it could have totally been fun...but come on. Give me a break!
JdargJdargSoWal Expert18,040 postsJoined View profileMessageSoWal Expert
JdargSoWal Expert18,040 postsJoined View profileMessageSoWal ExpertHappy Holidays doo doo doo
NFL boy is a turkey dum dum dum
We don't like him now la la la
Kimmi's more funn doo doo doo
Poot on NFL boy dum dum dum
Have more fun in Grayton la la la
NFL boy is a turkey dum dum dum
We don't like him now la la la
Kimmi's more funn doo doo doo
Poot on NFL boy dum dum dum
Have more fun in Grayton la la la
peapod1980peapod1980percyUp the hill from the Gateway Arch4,591 postsJoined View profileMessagepercy
peapod1980percyUp the hill from the Gateway Arch4,591 postsJoined View profileMessagepercyI think it could have totally been fun...but come on. Give me a break!Well, I think you must be totally over it, because he only got one N! That says it all.
Beachlover2Beachlover2Beach FanaticSoWal819 postsJoined View profileMessageBeach Fanatic
Beachlover2Beach FanaticSoWal819 postsJoined View profileMessageBeach FanaticAww Kimmi
Now besides buying you a birthday beer next week - I'll have to buy you a broken heart beer as well. I definitely think he could have tried harder - oh well - you deserve better - Next!!!!!!!!!!
Now besides buying you a birthday beer next week - I'll have to buy you a broken heart beer as well. I definitely think he could have tried harder - oh well - you deserve better - Next!!!!!!!!!!
LandlockedLandlockedBeach FanaticAlabama3,216 postsJoined View profileMessageBeach Fanatic
LandlockedBeach FanaticAlabama3,216 postsJoined View profileMessageBeach FanaticHis loss. Move on. Don't look back
Cap'nCrazyCap'nCrazyBeach LoverPittsburgh/Watercolor105 postsJoined View profileMessageBeach Lover
Cap'nCrazyBeach LoverPittsburgh/Watercolor105 postsJoined View profileMessageBeach LoverWell, I think you must be totally over it, because he only got one N! That says it all.
KF.....On the other hand, he might be really sick and doesn't want to sneeze all over you, and the MTA strike is an issue.
I'm all about recommending that you hedge your bets on this one. My guess is that he is not up in Connecticut with someone else, but maybe tied to family and doesn't want to disappoint them either.
No harm in giving him the benefit of the doubt one more time. I know this is a "guy" perspective, but what the heck, it's just a friendly opinion.
One time when I was single and in the Navy, I was in Philly for training and Gypsea was in Ocean City with her girlfriends for the weekend. I hitchhiked from Philly on Friday night to be with her. I got there about 11PM. She was totally surprised and (fortunately) glad to see me. It was a good move on my part. Not only did we have a great weekend, but we ended up married 2 years later.
Give the guy one more shot. I've got a good feeling it might be worth it.
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jessifunnjessifunnsuperJfunnSeagrove Beach4,810 postsJoined View profileMessagesuperJfunn
jessifunnsuperJfunnSeagrove Beach4,810 postsJoined View profileMessagesuperJfunnhere's the way to look at it kimmi
pro:
you won't have to stop at mcdonalds for hamburgers after you go out to dinner
he won't just show up at new years
you can finally throw away those roses
con:
you won't be able to get married at the superbowl
you won't be getting that diamond bracelet
pro:
you won't have to stop at mcdonalds for hamburgers after you go out to dinner
he won't just show up at new years
you can finally throw away those roses
con:
you won't be able to get married at the superbowl
you won't be getting that diamond bracelet
RudyjohnRudyjohnSoWal InsiderChicago Area7,736 postsJoined View profileMessageSoWal Insider
I am sorry too. BUT, don't let this ruin your holiddays. You have a lot of great friends. There will ALWAYS be somebody else - - somone who will make the effort. (You're allowed some self-pity, but then move on...)
Happy Holidays doo doo dooI love it Peapod! LOOOVE IT!
NFL boy is a turkey dum dum dum
We don't like him now la la la
Kimmi's more funn doo doo doo
Poot on NFL boy dum dum dum
Have more fun in Grayton la la la
seagroveloverseagroveloverlittle sugarSt Louis Missouri2,984 postsJoined View profileMessagelittle sugar
seagroveloverlittle sugarSt Louis Missouri2,984 postsJoined View profileMessagelittle sugarOh Kimmifunn.....what a bummer for you..... :(
I vote that you move on, and I totally agree that if he wanted to be there he would.....nothing can stop true ambition!
You are so cute and wonderful , go find you a new man!!!!! :wub:
or better yet.....be free and PARTAY for the holidays!!!!
😀 😀 😀
I vote that you move on, and I totally agree that if he wanted to be there he would.....nothing can stop true ambition!
You are so cute and wonderful , go find you a new man!!!!! :wub:
or better yet.....be free and PARTAY for the holidays!!!!
😀 😀 😀Aww KimmiNow we're talking. I'll find an unsuspecting Sowaller to be mine. :wub:
Now besides buying you a birthday beer next week - I'll have to buy you a broken heart beer as well. I definitely think he could have tried harder - oh well - you deserve better - Next!!!!!!!!!!
KF.....On the other hand, he might be really sick and doesn't want to sneeze all over you, and the MTA strike is an issue.
I'm all about recommending that you hedge your bets on this one. My guess is that he is not up in Connecticut with someone else, but maybe tied to family and doesn't want to disappoint them either.
No harm in giving him the benefit of the doubt one more time. I know this is a "guy" perspective, but what the heck, it's just a friendly opinion.
One time when I was single and in the Navy, I was in Philly for training and Gypsea was in Ocean City with her girlfriends for the weekend. I hitchhiked from Philly on Friday night to be with her. I got there about 11PM. She was totally surprised and (fortunately) glad to see me. It was a good move on my part. Not only did we have a great weekend, but we ended up married 2 years later.
Give the guy one more shot. I've got a good feeling it might be worth it.
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Oh thanks for the advice...I don't have much invested in it...just a lot of build up. If our paths cross again- sure. I'm all over it. Until then...I'm going to lay low. I can't get worked up over something that's a whim.
here's the way to look at it kimmiI have enough best friends...I don't need diamonds.
pro:
you won't have to stop at mcdonalds for hamburgers after you go out to dinner Very very true. I mean I'm a Chic Fil A kinda girl myself.
he won't just show up at new years I mean I only have one set of lips. And we are kissing bandits. He may get uncomfortable.
you can finally throw away those roses Yeah. 100% dead.
con:
you won't be able to get married at the superbowl This is devastating. That would have been amazing... and Pro Bowl in Hawaii...
you won't be getting that diamond bracelet
Ocean LoverOcean LoverbeanBuckeye Country9,491 postsJoined View profileMessagebean
Ocean LoverbeanBuckeye Country9,491 postsJoined View profileMessagebeanOh thanks for the advice...I don't have much invested in it...just a lot of build up. If our paths cross again- sure. I'm all over it. Until then...I'm going to lay low. I can't get worked up over something that's a whim.
There ya go girl, that's a good attitude. You are blessed with a great family and awesome friends!!! And you will be in Sowal soon having lots of FUNN!!!!
MermaidMermaidpicky7,871 postsJoined View profileMessagepicky
I have enough best friends...I don't need diamonds.
I never got a diamond, either, Kimmi, at least not the kind that goes around your finger. :wub:
And I'm with Cap'N'Crazy--he really could be sick! BUT don't think about it. Zero Zip Nada. If he calls when he's better, you'll be pleasantly (okay, estatically) surprised, and if he doesn't, well, we'll all do the Happy Dance around the bonfire that it was good riddance to bad rubbish!
In any event, Kimmi, you know what we feel:
We love you Kimmi!
peapod1980peapod1980percyUp the hill from the Gateway Arch4,591 postsJoined View profileMessagepercy
peapod1980percyUp the hill from the Gateway Arch4,591 postsJoined View profileMessagepercyOne time when I was single and in the Navy, I was in Philly for training and Gypsea was in Ocean City with her girlfriends for the weekend. I hitchhiked from Philly on Friday night to be with her. I got there about 11PM. She was totally surprised and (fortunately) glad to see me. It was a good move on my part. Not only did we have a great weekend, but we ended up married 2 years later.Now, this is the kind of guy who wins a girl's heart!
Waiting to hear Gypsea's input... :popcorn:
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