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Unplug for 6 months - could you?

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They were talking about this on the radio this morning - a mom got frustrated with the constant intrusion of electronics and decided she and her kids would go without for 6 months.

I know some Sowal families do this on a limited basis with a designated "electronic free" night each week.

Electronics continue to get more and more intrusive and are actively changing how we communicate, think, and interact - and not in a good way.

My sadness for those who are missing out on life because they are glued to their phones and frustration with the constant intrusion and downright rudeness that results from omnipresent electronics is well known.

What do you think?

Mom challenges family to unplug for 6 months - Health - Kids and parenting - msnbc.com

NEW YORK ? Susan Maushart lived out every parent's fantasy: She unplugged her teenagers.
For six months, she took away the Internet, TV, iPods, cell phones and video games. The eerie glow of screens stopped lighting up the family room. Electronic devices no longer chirped through the night like "evil crickets." And she stopped carrying her iPhone into the bathroom.

The result of what she grandly calls "The Experiment" was more OMG than LOL ? and nothing less than an immersion in RL (real life).
As Maushart explains in a book released in the U.S. this week called "The Winter of Our Disconnect" (Penguin, $16.95), she and her kids rediscovered small pleasures ? like board games, books, lazy Sundays, old photos, family meals and listening to music together instead of everyone plugging into their own iPods.

Maushart began The Experiment with a drastic measure: She turned off the electricity completely for a few weeks ? candles instead of electric lights, no hot showers, food stored in a cooler of ice. When blackout boot camp ended, Maushart hoped the "electricity is awesome!" reaction would soften the kids' transition to life without Google and cell phones.

Maushart realizes that living off the grid for six months is unrealistic for most people. (She also admits getting her kids to go along with it partly by bribing them with a cut of proceeds from the book, which she planned to write all along.)

But she encourages families to unplug periodically. "One way to do it is just to have that one screen-free day a week. Not as a punishment ? not by saying, 'I've had enough!' ? but by instituting it as a special thing," she said. "There isn't a kid on the planet who wouldn't really rather be playing a board game than sitting at the computer."

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ameliaj avatar
ameliajBeach Fanatic
#2
Would my Kindle count?
scooterbug44 avatar
scooterbug44SoWal ExpertAuthor
#3
Yes, it's an electronic device.
30ashopper avatar
30ashopperSoWal Insider
#4
I don't think a complete unplug would be such a good thing. I'd stop learning from Wikipedia, I'd stop knowing what's going on in the world, I'd stop balancing my checkbook and managing what I spend, and I'd stop communicating with family.

I would however love to try and go six months without television. That's an interesting idea. No more talking heads, no showtime and hbo shows, no more silly movies I really won't miss seeing.
scooterbug44 avatar
scooterbug44SoWal ExpertAuthor
#5
They still print newspapers, magazines, and books. ;-)

Part of the idea is to spend time with your loved ones, not just be in their vicinity with an electronic device - so with all that free time you could visit them!

If you read the article, the ban was on using electronics in the home - so the kids could go to the library to research for school, talk to friends on the landline phone, etc.

I've lived without a television - it is wonderful. 😀 I constantly try to "de-television" my world, but am fighting a losing battle - in restaurants, waiting rooms, airports, etc.
Jesus avatar
JesusBeach Lover
#6
I could do without most electronic devices, but I refuse to give up my pacemaker.
ameliaj avatar
ameliajBeach Fanatic
#7
I think it's a great idea. I know my child get's "involved with" smartphone, ipod, etc and breaking the texting cycle is tough. We had a cell bill that showed over 7000 texts for the month. Thank goodness for the unlimited plan. We hit the ceiling and took the phone for a good while. We finally have set large blocks of "no text" times in the evening. It's and addiction I tell you.
bluemtnrunner avatar
bluemtnrunnerBeach Fanatic
#8
I told the kids that NO TEXTING WHILE DRIVING includes every person in the car not just mom and dad (the drivers). It is amazing how they will carry on conversations without the constant badoobob of incoming and outgoing texts.
We also have regular technology free days on Monday and Wednesday (other than me being on the computer for work...well, and now). It works out well.
I'm shooting for a tech free weekend.
Andy A avatar
Andy ABeach Fanatic
#9
I was raised without television. It was not accessible in Colorado until sometime in the '50's due to signals not being able to be transmitted because of the mountains. That said, I am not about to now give up the few electronic devices I use. The only one happens to be my cell phone. I don't own any others and don't miss them one bit. No kids left so texting is not a problem. In fact, texting on our phone network is blocked.
lenzoe avatar
lenzoeBeach Fanatic
#10
This may be foreign to SoWal since you all have cable or satellite anyway, but when they made the transition from analog to DTV broadcast in Atlanta, the Government was so intent on making sure everyone kept watching broadcast TV that they sent out millions of dollars of free coupons to purchase analog-to-digital convertor boxes for the masses.

I couldn't help but wondering why they were so intent that everyone keep watching TV.

We don't have cable or satellite and we never made that broadcast conversion so we haven't actually had a working TV in our home for about a year and a half now. So the only time we watch TV now is during trips to our rental unit in Seagrove (which are only during the off season and dictated by the kids school schedules, which means relatively long breaks between fixes).

It seems to me that every time I do watch it between these long breaks, it feels increasingly as though I'm watching some portal into another dimension containing weird jabbering aliens. Especially the reality (ha) and talking-head shows.

I highly recommend turning off the TV permanently, if you can. It's an interesting experience.
Alicia Leonard avatar
Alicia LeonardSoWal Insider
#11
I don't think a complete unplug would be such a good thing. I'd stop learning from Wikipedia, I'd stop knowing what's going on in the world, I'd stop balancing my checkbook and managing what I spend, and I'd stop communicating with family.

I would however love to try and go six months without television. That's an interesting idea. No more talking heads, no showtime and hbo shows, no more silly movies I really won't miss seeing.

You would not miss it a bit....I have a TV, but have not had cable in over 4 years. Just started streaming movies to my xbox for entertainment, but I go weeks without turning it on and find it hard to watch it now when I am in a waiting room.
DuneAHH avatar
DuneAHHBeach Fanatic
#12
Idealistically it sounds rather 'romantic' in a nostalgic way. Realistically... I won't do it until I'm forced to.

I just got rid of my cell phone. Even tho I watch a lot of TV (movies & learning channels), I could give up TV fairly easily because I've had times in my life where I wouldn't watch it for weeks at a time.

I'm truly addicted to my lap top. I know I could live without it, but I might be bitter for awhile ;-)
Bob avatar
BobSoWal Insider
#13
I could do without most electronic devices, but I refuse to give up my pacemaker.
what about your armageddon alarm clock or marital aids?
Bob avatar
BobSoWal Insider
#14
I don't think a complete unplug would be such a good thing. I'd stop learning from Wikipedia, I'd stop knowing what's going on in the world, I'd stop balancing my checkbook and managing what I spend, and I'd stop communicating with family.

I would however love to try and go six months without television. That's an interesting idea. No more talking heads, no showtime and hbo shows, no more silly movies I really won't miss seeing.
if you have a digital converter box and also subscribe to cable internet service, if you return the box to the local cable service center and say that you are cancelling tv and wish to keep internet, the cable weasels will not bother to filter out the basic channels because of the internal cost of the service call....free tv up to about 75-85 channels! if you ask the cable company to come pick up the box, they will take the opportunity to filter the tv channels.
Rita avatar
Ritamargarita brocolia
#15
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If I remember correctly, we haven't had cable since the late 1970s when we lived in an area of KY where you couldn't get any channels without cable. Only watch a few shows now. I wouldn't miss TV at all - it would be extremely easy to give up. Not one to use the phone much either. ..... Now the computer is another story! :lol:


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poppyBanned
#16
Books are only as good as their content and television is only as good as the programs you are viewing. HGTV, FoodNetwok, History Channel, and Discovery Channel, all have excellent programs that are entertaining and educational. Then there is PBS with my three favorites, Frontline, Nova and Independent Lens.
GoodWitch58Beach Fanatic
#17
My son and DIL gave up cable after this past summer when their TV was on the blink, and they were away for a good portion of the summer months...once everyone got back home and the TV got fixed, they realized they had not missed it and so they canceled the cable. They have two small children who watch videos selected by parents, but very little television.
I watch very little television, but do enjoy some shows and PBS Newshour. I am an NPR junkie though--giving that up would be hard.
the best investment I ever made was the DVR--it is amazing how little time it takes to catch up on the news when you are not watching/hearing all those commercials.
I would find it difficult to give up my computer/Internet, but I could probably do that too, except for business purposes. Today, almost all business related "stuff" is somehow tied to the computer...and I do like being able to connect with my family and friends all around the world.
scooterbug44 avatar
scooterbug44SoWal ExpertAuthor
#18
I've gone without TV and it's very nice - you don't really miss it.

Ditto for turning off/leaving the cell phone behind. Plus, I am not important enough where I really MUST be reachable 24/7 - though many people seem to think differently and flip out when they can't reach me - mainly because they are so USED to people always answering no matter where they are.

On several occasions, I've cut myself off completely from every outside influence except the group of people I am traveling with and I must say it is quite the unpleasant culture shock to return.

Cell phones/electronics ARE an addiction for - which is why I loved that this lady did this.
Andy A avatar
Andy ABeach Fanatic
#19
I also think that one's age, interests and mobility enter into the equation. I would greatly miss the TV as I do not get out and about as I once use to do. I do agree that electronics are addictive, though.
scooterbug44 avatar
scooterbug44SoWal ExpertAuthor
#20
Moderation is the key - I do like TV and find my cell phone and computer quite useful.

But I don't need them on 24/7.

When you can't have a meal or a lengthy conversation without interruption, can't watch a movie or play, and must sleep with your phone by your bed, then it's an issue.

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