Where's Ali?

A nice quiet one. How wonderful. Can you send him to me :clap_1:

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I love it.....

zactly...he is a good soul...makes me laugh every time....but Farks up too often...:roll:

a good friend is nice to have. FRIEND, my dear. Healthy friend relationships do not have to involve romance or anything stressful... otherwise, dump the friend right now. once and for all!!!

the right person is waiting somewhere for you. and he will be perfect in all ways.

a good friend is nice to have. FRIEND, my dear. Healthy friend relationships do not have to involve romance or anything stressful... otherwise, dump the friend right now. once and for all!!!

the right person is waiting somewhere for you. and he will be perfect in all ways.

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a good friend is nice to have. FRIEND, my dear. Healthy friend relationships do not have to involve romance or anything stressful... otherwise, dump the friend right now. once and for all!!!

the right person is waiting somewhere for you. and he will be perfect in all ways.

I know girl...we have discussed this many times....;-) It is hard for him to accept just friends, and with all he has, and is still going through..more knee problems.... , I can't dessert him, so I stay in his life, and try to make it work the way I need it to.... He knows where we stand...but yes, it is stressful sometimes.

I know girl...we have discussed this many times....;-) It is hard for him to accept just friends, and with all he has, and is still going through..more knee problems.... , I can't dessert him, so I stay in his life, and try to make it work the way I need it to.... He knows where we stand...but yes, it is stressful sometimes.

things get complicated only if we allow it. you have responsibility for you and your children. period.

I think Tootsie's M and M's have the right philosophy.

"Melts in your mouth (kissing) and not your hands"

things get complicated only if we allow it. you have responsibility for you and your children. period.

You are sooo right Toots but I do understand. Ali has a kind heart and that's how we can be manipulated (not that you don't, of course but you know what I mean). In your words, sometimes we're p***ies . I fear that I may have a similiar situation coming up. No involvement or history really, just basically the possibility of telling somone that it's a "just friends" thing and I might need to search for the way if that happens because I hate to hurt anyone.

But I KNOW that you're right and we do need to control the situation and not allow our emotions to put us in a bad situation just because we feel bad for someone.

We love her and are here for Ali and somehow I just know that when the time is right she's gonna make her move and feel right about it. It's such a hard thing. I'm praying too that she doesn't get sucked into anything long term cause I have a feeling that it's just not right.

Just another reason that we need to get her down here to sowal So her sistas can take care of her or KIDNAP her if necessary :rofl:

things get complicated only if we allow it. you have responsibility for you and your children. period.

It is not so complicated now....the way in which we came to this point, and our history, is very complicated....as you well know! I realize my responsibility to myself...but just like with Mike...it is going to take some time to help him come to the point that I can step away with no one hurt...or the least amount of damage if nothing else.

It is not so complicated now....the way in which we came to this point, and our history, is very complicated....as you well know! I realize my responsibility to myself...but just like with Mike...it is going to take some time to help him come to the point that I can step away with no one hurt...or the least amount of damage if nothing else.

I've got the answer! Let's leave for a cross country trip for about a year That should do it!

I've got the answer! Let's leave for a cross country trip for about a year That should do it!

How much funn would that be!! We could visit all the SoWallers accross the country...ending with KIMMIFUNN!!!!!! :clap_1:

How much funn would that be!! We could visit all the SoWallers accross the country...ending with KIMMIFUNN!!!!!! :clap_1:

You know it. The Rockies, LA, Las Vegas, San fran, Utah, Colorado in a van that we can sleep in with a fridge and a hibachi. Used to do that in my 20's The US trip is on my wish list so it will happen soon!

the door is always open in richmond for cork and alli - the new thelma and louise !

the door is always open in richmond for cork and alli - the new thelma and louise !

Hmmmm, never been to Richmond but it's a must do if Audie there No Thelma and Louise here. Just good stuff! If we jump, we'll fly

the door is always open in richmond for cork and alli - the new thelma and louise !

Richmond would be on the agenda!!!

Hmmmm, never been to Richmond but it's a must do if Audie there No Thelma and Louise here. Just good stuff! If we jump, we'll fly

Parachuting!!!! I have parasailed, hot air balloned, hellicoptered and small planed it...but never jumped for a plane!

You know it. The Rockies, LA, Las Vegas, San fran, Utah, Colorado in a van that we can sleep in with a fridge and a hibachi. Used to do that in my 20's The US trip is on my wish list so it will happen soon!

I would sell my house and buy a small motor home...I must have a bathroom! and a stove :roll:

sell your house and move in with us - you can have the extra bedroom and cook for us.....

sell your house and move in with us - you can have the extra bedroom and cook for us.....

that would be funn...I could be a traveling chef....stay a month with each participating SoWaller!

sweet - you may be onto something here !!!

How much funn would that be!! We could visit all the SoWallers accross the country...ending with KIMMIFUNN!!!!!! :clap_1:

Now THIS sounds like my kinda trip! No planes involved.

You know it. The Rockies, LA, Las Vegas, San fran, Utah, Colorado in a van that we can sleep in with a fridge and a hibachi. Used to do that in my 20's The US trip is on my wish list so it will happen soon!

I like it!

that would be funn...I could be a traveling chef....stay a month with each participating SoWaller!

Need a sous chef?

Need a sous chef?

ALWAYS!!!!!!

How much funn would that be!! We could visit all the SoWallers accross the country...ending with KIMMIFUNN!!!!!! :clap_1:

Oh...mama likey! Come see Kfunn. Today it's not a pretty picture...hungover/lifetime movie kfunn.

sell your house and move in with us - you can have the extra bedroom and cook for us.....

:nono1: I have first dibs on her!

A motor home would kill us on the gas. My parents bought one and never used it because the gas was so much. Also such a pain maneuvering it.
Has it occurred to you sweet Ali, that when we sleep on the trains, the bathrooms are not private, no shower and leave something to be desired? In fact by morning, they are downright nasty! Can you deal without a private bath on the nights on the train?

:nono1: I have first dibs on her!

A motor home would kill us on the gas. My parents bought one and never used it because the gas was so much. Also such a pain maneuvering it.
Has it occurred to you sweet Ali, that when we sleep on the trains, the bathrooms are not private, no shower and leave something to be desired? In fact by morning, they are downright nasty! Can you deal without a private bath on the nights on the train?

as long as I have a pot to piss in I am fine..... I'll pack my gas mask....:shock:

as long as I have a pot to piss in I am fine..... I'll pack my gas mask....:shock:

That's my girl :clap_1: we're on! A thrill a minute