Honey, he's still chum. :roll:

How about "platonic guy friend?" He has hung around for quite a while, so maybe put him on probation for six months or so (or at least a certain date in late April) and promote him to full-time status if he proves compatible.
I know you gotta love again one day but...
btw, hope you feel better very soon. I would come visit but I am afraid I am incubating something worse than what you probably have.![]()
I had a text message from Mr. Stood me up.......he said, " I'm Chum?".....yeah, we got his attention. I have a message for him......don't EVER darken my doorway with your presence EVER again. You, and your room mate (aka suedo wife, his room mate is a guy) are less than CHUM, that was a complement. Don't call me, don't text me, don't tell me you are walking to my house because I wouldn't pick you up at Pandora's...why in the hail would I do that? You don't get it, tick head little .....feet. You thought it was cool that I was nice to you, even after the "stood up", forgetting my birthday and pulling Mr. Happy out in a local restaurant....well, you have abused the privalege of me being nice. Sharks don't deserve you're callus hide. Disappear!!!!!![]()
Remember this one????? His call last night was to clear up any misunderstandings...He really thinks he deserves another chance and it is not going to happen. As I told him last night....."You don't get it, do you?"
He did try to walk to my house, but got picked up by a cop that saw him hitch hiking with a beer in his hand. :funn: The cop talked him out of coming to my house (thank you!!!!!!!) and drove him home. He said he thought I would have called him by now.
Note for Chum: Please stop. You said that this thread is embarrassing you and your friends know about it. I didn't tell them who you are and you are not mentioned here, so how do they know?? My suggestion is to quit while you are still just chum.
That would surely mess him up. Not that I want to mess him up. I want to be able to walk into a public place, see him, be friendly, no drama....and NO dating him. My hope is that he gets it now! I am sure his 'BullFrog' friend will read him what's being written today. BullFrog....help him to get it.
Hi Sweetie!! I can keep up with it because I lived it, I understand the confusion. Chum is getting DEADER every day.
I am confused.....which one is Chum? Not the one that had a fiance or wife? I hope you feel better, SSG!!