I agree it is not your responsibility to try and change anyone's mind about anything. But you and I both have a responsibility to all those people who have died for you and I to have a democracy. I am not even asking either one of us to die on a hill trying to change anyone's mind about anything. All I am asking is that we are respectful when talking with a Trump supporter or anyone we disagree with about anything. Michelle Obama suggest that when they go low we go high. Eventually these small acts of kindness will pay off. It is hard I get it. But we ain't facing a firing squad or charging a hill or anything like that. I see a problem with asking others to be respectful when we can't be respectful or asking people to protect our democracy when we don't seem to care! Hillary being female can use the word deplorable but you and I are white privileged males and need to choose our words more carefully and respectfully.