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Ocean Lover avatar
bean
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This is kind of a long story but my sis has had viral meningitis since before the 4th. She has 3 bad cold sores on her lower lip and when I saw her on the 4th I thought that was why she wasn't moving her face much on one side. She didn't really think about it that much until yesterday when she woke up and both sides of her face are paralyzed. She went to the ER and was admitted last night. I was there when the neurologist came today. His prognosis was not what we were expecting to hear. She has nerve damage and this could last as little as 6 weeks to as long as 2 years, he could not tell us anything because he they just don't know. She is soooo sad. She can't smile or kiss her kids goodnight. She can eat but it's not easy. She's worried about a lot of things. She's worried about how she looks, how she sounds, that she can't work etc... Please pray for her comfort and a full recovery as soon as possible. She has a spinal tap last night and now an infectious disease Dr is being called in for a second opinion. Ever since she was little she would get cold sores on her lips. I remember one time she had 10 at once. That was as bad as it ever got. I get one every now and then when my immune system is down and I'm stressed. I think they're trying to deturmine exactly what is going on with her. I just feel so helpless. Thank God Sam and I were at the hospital today when she got the news. Her husband went home to take care of the Jackson and Delaney and give my mom a break. We'll go over tomorrow to help with them. Thanks in advance for the prayers!!!:wub:

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Beach Fanatic
#2
You got it, OL!!! U R a suhweet brother to take care of your sis :wub: :bow:
iwishiwasthere avatar
Beach Fanatic
#3
OL..so sorry about your sister's illness. That is such a scary story. I will keep your and your family in prayer.
GIjo avatar
Beach Fanatic
#4
Hey OL, you have prayers for your family going up from the west coast. Keep your chin up, your sister is lucky to have such love from her family.

xoxoxoxo

;-)
DD avatar
SoWal Expert
#5
Oh OL! I'm so sorry to hear this. I will be sending up prayers for your sis, her family and you. :wub:
Miss Kitty avatar
Meow
#6
Hang in there, hopefully the expert will shed some light. I am sending prayers ,as well, to all of you.
Beach Runner avatar
beats on hood
#7
Oh my goodness! I am so sorry, OL! Prayers on their way.
Mango avatar
SoWal Insider
#8
OL, I have had this before on one side of my face so I understand how your sis feels. Keep your chin up like GIgo says. It does go away eventually. Prayers her way for the quickest recovery for both her and her family. You're a good gull and sis.
DD avatar
SoWal Expert
#9
Mangy, OL--Could this be Bell's Palsy? I've heard of it, but not sure of all the symptoms. I have heard that it does go away eventually.
NoHall avatar
hmmmm......can't remember
#11
I'm so sorry--I'm-a praying!
Ocean Lover avatar
beanAuthor
#12
Mangy, OL--Could this be Bell's Palsy? I've heard of it, but not sure of all the symptoms. I have heard that it does go away eventually.


DD, that's what we thought at first but the Dr's haven't said anything about it. Right now we don't have all the answers. When we met w/ the neurologist he was very subdued and serious. It really scared us. We were expecting him to come in and say something about it being temporary. He wouldn't commit to anything and said there was a possibility of not a 100 percent recovery of the nerves. Lori ( my sis) is the baby of the family and the dramatic one also although this time I can't blame her for being so upset. She's not taking this well at all at the moment.
Ocean Lover avatar
beanAuthor
#13
You got it, OL!!! U R a suhweet brother to take care of your sis :wub: :bow:


Silly gull, I'm the big Sister!
Ocean Lover avatar
beanAuthor
#14
Forgive my lack of multi quotes. ;-)

Thank you all for your prayers!!!!!:wub:
DD avatar
SoWal Expert
#15
DD, that's what we thought at first but the Dr's haven't said anything about it. Right now we don't have all the answers. When we met w/ the neurologist he was very subdued and serious. It really scared us. We were expecting him to come in and say something about it being temporary. He wouldn't commit to anything and said there was a possibility of not a 100 percent recovery of the nerves. Lori ( my sis) is the baby of the family and the dramatic one also although this time I can't blame her for being so upset. She's not taking this well at all at the moment.

Where is Skunky when we need him? I hope it does turn out to be only temporary. I know she must be out of her mind with worry! :(
Beach Runner avatar
beats on hood
#16
I went into labor at 26 weeks with Beach Jacket. I had been told it was impossible for me to get pregnant, so needless to say, this flipped out my family. I was in the hospital on bedrest, Yutopar, a catheter, and a low-res diet for two months. My Mom got so stressed out with a simultaneous viral infection that she got Bell's Palsy. I was the one that noticed it. Everyone was so worried about me that they didn't notice that one side of her face was paralyzed. She was 62 years old then and was back to normal in six months. Hopefully, OL, your sis will have an equally speedy recovery.
SoWal Insider
#17
Oh, OL, I am sorry to hear this about your sister. But it's still early in the diagnostic stage, maybe there's positive news yet to come. At this stage, they're most likely ruling out other possible diseases w/ similar symptoms. The unknown is so frightening.

Do they have the results from the lumbar puncture? Bell's palsy is the first thing that came to my mind, too.

I'll be praying for all of you. Keep us posted.

Take care.
dbuck avatar
Beach Fanatic
#18
I am so sorry OL. Lori and your family will be in my prayers.
Beachmom avatar
Beach Fanatic
#19
OL- Prayers you have- I'm sure she is really scared. Please keep us posted on what is going on-:wub:
organicmama avatar
Beach Fanatic
#20
Sending prayers, hugs, support, healing vibes, etc. I know how scared you, your sister & your family must be. Have faith & hold on to each other.

Hugs!:wub:
Beach Lover
#21
Hey OL prayers for your sister and all your family. I have facial neuralgia whuch is very painfull nerve spasms that no one can see. they dont show up on cat scans or ultrasounds. /feels like electric shocks, i also get cold sores with it. happens when i am stressed, I took some prednisone and a low dose of Lyrica which is given to diabetics for nerve damage. It has helped me. Ask about Lyrica.
audie avatar
fartblossom
#22
i'm so sorry to read this ol - sending thoughts your way from the next state over !
Sheila avatar
SoWal Insider
#23
OL I will keep your sister and your family in my thoughts and prayers. :wub:
tistheseason avatar
Beach Fanatic
#24
Any update, OL?
seagrovelover avatar
little sugar
#25
Oceanlover..................sending love and prayers your way:wub:
Cheering472 avatar
SoWal Insider
#26
Goodness that sounds scary. Lori and you are in my prayers. Please keep us posted.

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