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what happened to my grandson's food stamps

destinconciergeBeach Lover
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Our family has never taken state support, however, my daughter is a single mom, working and striving to get her son's father the pay the child support he owes. She has been a year without support, going through the ever so slow court system. She was eligble for $213 in food stamps until last month. Now she gets $30 a month. That is nothing! We do not want to rely on state support, but until the father lives up to his obligations, what is she to do?

I have tried to find something on the internet about this but have not found anything. Can anyone tell me why the state of Florida cannot feed the kids!

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MiMi n MiRaMaRBeach Lover
#52
now they are! I am trying to get a sitter service started so I can help take care of my grandson until my daughter can get on her feet. I was laid off my admin assitant job a while back and am now working for 8.50hr as a restaurant hostess. The concierge biz didn't get off the ground so I am working on the sitter service.
MiMi n MiRaMaRBeach Lover
#53
We use a nanny two days a week. She has many other nannies that work for her- or at least she places them and gets some sort of a finders fee. Anyway, let me know if you would like me to put you in touch with her. She could offer some advice and/or have you sitting as soon as you can get your CPR certification and she completes a background check. She says business is good and she is turning much of it away...

have you and/or your daughter seen the other thread?

G
Please give her my info or send me hers! Thanks!
MiMi n MiRaMaRBeach Lover
#54
😀 Thanks to all for your suggestions, support offers and GW, your PM.

A co-worker, a single mom with 3 kids, said her benefits went from 300.00 per month to 30.00. So this is not just a problem for us. I still would like to know why our state has cut this program.

I am working on starting a sitter service. Please pass this info on!

MiMi n MiMaMar
850.225.7549
miramarmimi@yahoo.com

I am also listed on sittercity.com

I have personal references and background check.
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CPort avatar
CPortBeach Fanatic
#55
😀 Thanks to all for your suggestions, support offers and GW, your PM.

A co-worker, a single mom with 3 kids, said her benefits went from 300.00 per month to 30.00. So this is not just a problem for us. I still would like to know why our state has cut this program.

I am working on starting a sitter service. Please pass this info on!

MiMi n MiMaMar
850.225.7549
miramarmimi@yahoo.com

I am also listed on sittercity.com

I have personal references and background check.
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Your daughter is going to have to call/visit her caseworker to get that answer
MiMi n MiRaMaRBeach Lover
#56
I agree with Geowickey in the fact that all people need to be prepared to independently support themselves. Women are particularly bad at doing this. (I've recently put a lot of thought behind this -- but I will spare you my complete rant. )And clearly the father hasn't proven to be a reliable source of support. But part of independently supporting yourself CAN include a period of time on public assistance. And that time CAN be over 1 year if you are working on a plan -- such as finishing a degree.

Now, does anyone have any knowledge of what caused food stamps to be cut back so drastically? Seems like an unfair reduction.

:idontno:
TooFarTampa avatar
TooFarTampaSoWal Insider
#57
Your daughter is going to have to call/visit her caseworker to get that answer

Yep.

I looked and looked and could not find anything about food stamp programs being cut. In fact, according to a story in my local paper today, more Floridians than ever are on food stamps, and so far they are able to handle the increase:

The total cost of food stamp benefits for Florida is expected to reach about $1.5-billion this year, said Lange, the DCF administrator.

Statewide, 768,693 families received food stamps in May. Individual recipients numbered 1.5-million.

"So far we're able to manage the increase. It's harder and harder," she said.

The higher demand for food stamps isn't affecting cash-strapped state coffers because it is funded with federal money.

http://www.tampabay.com/news/business/personalfinance/article623031.ece

Looks like your daughter had a change in her individual situation, especially to have had such a drastic decrease. There haven't been any widespread cuts.
MiMi n MiRaMaRBeach Lover
#58
Yep.

I looked and looked and could not find anything about food stamp programs being cut. In fact, according to a story in my local paper today, more Floridians than ever are on food stamps, and so far they are able to handle the increase:



http://www.tampabay.com/news/business/personalfinance/article623031.ece

Looks like your daughter had a change in her individual situation, especially to have had such a drastic decrease. There haven't been any widespread cuts.

Thanks for the info!
I am not sure why her benifits were changed as she still has the same job and is not making any more money than before. I had a friend say her benefits were cut as well. :idontno:
SHELLY avatar
SHELLYSoWal Insider
#59
Thanks for the info!
I am not sure why her benifits were changed as she still has the same job and is not making any more money than before. I had a friend say her benefits were cut as well. :idontno:

The only thing I can come up with is that maybe her take-home pay was recalculated due to the economic stimulus check which knocked her entitlement down by a few notches.

It's apparent she must be doing just fine with the decreased amount she got paid and isn't at all concerned about the cut--or else she'd had already called by now. :idontno: All's well that ends well.

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GeoBeach Fanatic
#60
It's apparent she must be doing just fine with the decreased amount she got paid and isn't at all concerned about the cut--or else she'd had already called by now.

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2 Thoughts-

1) I agree with your subtle point
2) I wish you the best if peeps give you a hard time like they did me when I gave some tough love on this thread
elgordoboy avatar
elgordoboyBeach Fanatic
#61
Geo avatar
GeoBeach Fanatic
#62

IMHO, the fact that the original poster is still inquiring about why this happened after all that has been said- after all the abuse the horse has been through- makes me believe that this horse could be dead- but many of us saw it gasp and move...

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elgordoboy avatar
elgordoboyBeach Fanatic
#63
It began to remind me of a Sandy Banks post.
Geo avatar
GeoBeach Fanatic
#64
It began to remind me of a Sandy Banks post.

Please bring me inside the joke...
RudyjohnSoWal Insider
#65

seriously, don't do this. this is just crappy. And I like you too, but come on!
You know, gordo, until it happens to you, you won't get it. I mean really, WTF?
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RudyjohnSoWal Insider
#66
Please bring me inside the joke...
Don't even try. Trust me, you're not the only one beating a friggin dead horse here. :roll:


(I'm taking a risk here and will probably get red repped for another one of my many "annoying" posts. :puke:. )
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elgordoboy avatar
elgordoboyBeach Fanatic
#67
seriously, don't do this. this is just crappy. And I like you too, but come on!
You know, gordo, until it happens to you, you won't get it. I mean really, WTF?
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I don't know for sure which way you think I was going with the dead horse (don't really know myself which way I was going, maybe all available targets), but you tend to be a good and decent conscience for the board. So I will stop. You can PM me and clarify what the "until it happens to you" is so I won't have my feelings hurt by that and the "wtf?" :wave:
RudyjohnSoWal Insider
#68
I don't know for sure which way you think I was going with the dead horse (don't really know myself which way I was going, maybe all available targets), but you tend to be a good and decent conscience for the board. So I will stop. You can PM me and clarify what the "until it happens to you" is so I won't have my feelings hurt by that and the "wtf?" :wave:

Love ya. :wave:

Gotta run ~
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CPort avatar
CPortBeach Fanatic
#69
It began to remind me of a Sandy Banks post.
:floor:where is ole SB????Off to another board acting crazy ????

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