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Got Stood Up!!!!!

seagrovegirl avatar
Beach Fanatic
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Life of a 40 something single girl just sucks...(can I say that Kurt).......Was stood up Saturday night....and I am really sad and questioning my self worth...am I old? Am I too fat? Is my hair not right? Was there a bugger in my nose??? What gives??? Advice please!!!!

I am not fishing for compliments....just want anyone who wishes to join in on the pity party. :confused:

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seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#2
Did Imention my husband left me for another woman recently........it must of been a bugger.
scooterbug44 avatar
SoWal Expert
#3
IMO you dodged a major bullet - anyone who "stands someone up" isn't worth dating! :angry: That's just SO rude, especially in this day and age of umpteen ways to communicate!

It's them, not you - and it's not an age/weight/hairdo thing.
sunspotbaby avatar
SoWal Insider
#4
IMO you dodged a major bullet - anyone who "stands someone up" isn't worth dating! :angry: That's just SO rude, especially in this day and age of umpteen ways to communicate!

It's them, not you - and it's not an age/weight/hairdo thing.

Well said. I have no real advice. If I were to suddenly be single, I don't think I'd date anyone 'till my girls were grown. (Wouldn't bring'em home anyway:biggrin:). Have funn with being you and do what you like to do. If Mr. Right is out there, he'll find you. :wave:
Lynnie avatar
SoWal Insider
#5
So sorry to hear this. Bring that humma out and meet my ho! That'll be way more funn, I just feel it!

;-)
Cheering472 avatar
SoWal Insider
#6
Dahling girl, you determine your self worth, not him and not your ex-huband. (Read that sentence again please)

You could be heavy, have "buggers" and old flat hair, and still be worth much more than that guy on his best day. He was wrong for you trust me. You don't want someone like that anyway. You are worth too much to waste time on thoughtless unkind people like this guy. May he find a Brett Michaels Rock of Love reject who he considers worthy. I'm sure that will work out great for him.
scooterbug44 avatar
SoWal Expert
#7
May he find a Brett Michaels Rock of Love reject who he considers worthy.
:clap: That's a powerful curse! :rofl:
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#8
Dahling girl, you determine your self worth, not him and not your ex-huband. (Read that sentence again please)

You could be heavy, have "buggers" and old flat hair, and still be worth much more than that guy on his best day. He was wrong for you trust me. You don't want someone like that anyway. You are worth too much to waste time on thoughtless unkind people like this guy. May he find a Brett Michaels Rock of Love reject who he considers worthy. I'm sure that will work out great for him.


:rofl::rofl::rofl::clap::clap::clap::clap:
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#9
So sorry to hear this. Bring that humma out and meet my ho! That'll be way more funn, I just feel it!

;-)

Not to worry, me and the "humma" will be there if I am still standing from the night before. Might have to bring me a stretcher and IV liquids.....I am having Birthday funn the night before the soiree.......:biggrin:
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#10
Dahling girl, you determine your self worth, not him and not your ex-huband. (Read that sentence again please)

You could be heavy, have "buggers" and old flat hair, and still be worth much more than that guy on his best day. He was wrong for you trust me. You don't want someone like that anyway. You are worth too much to waste time on thoughtless unkind people like this guy. May he find a Brett Michaels Rock of Love reject who he considers worthy. I'm sure that will work out great for him.

You are so right.........thank you!
Cheering472 avatar
SoWal Insider
#11
You are so right.........thank you!

:wub: I've been in your shoes. Hang in there, I promise it gets better.
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#12
:wub: I've been in your shoes. Hang in there, I promise it gets better.


:wub:
Lynnie avatar
SoWal Insider
#13
When's your birthday? This Friday? Or, are you celebrating someone else?
scooterbug44 avatar
SoWal Expert
#14
It could have been worse - the batturd could have shown up! ;-)
Cheering472 avatar
SoWal Insider
#15
It could have been worse - the batturd could have shown up! ;-)

:clap: There's always a silver lining.
Bob avatar
SoWal Insider
#16
yeah, you didn't have to waste your time!
kitlit avatar
Beach Fanatic
#17
Not to worry, me and the "humma" will be there if I am still standing from the night before. Might have to bring me a stretcher and IV liquids.....I am having Birthday funn the night before the soiree.......:biggrin:

That can be arranged, if necessary!

And just for the record-- it most definitely was not you, but him who missed out on something great the other night! What a dumb bass! :roll::wub:;-):wave:
Lynnie avatar
SoWal Insider
#18
Do we know if batturd is ok? He's not laid up in the hospital or in a ditch somewhere is he? I don't feel badly bashing a batturd if I know he's alive and well......and, just being a batturd. But, if he were sick or dying or something, I'd feel badly about it........do we know?
ShallowsNole avatar
Beach Fanatic
#19
No, I'm sure he's just a bat turd.

Love you hon...:wub:

(Happy bday, I'll be right behind you, as always :wave:)
Matt J avatar
SWGB
#20
I think we have a theme for the soiree!

Sowal Extreme Cougar Makeover!

You just have to show up. We'll bring the botox (Miss Kitty has a non-invasive procedure as well), leopard skin, hair extensions, spack...er makeup, and the fire will provide just the soft lighting to set off the whole ensemble. You'll be beating off 18 year-olds with a stick in no time.
DD avatar
SoWal Expert
#21
I think we have a theme for the soiree!

Sowal Extreme Cougar Makeover!

You just have to show up. We'll bring the botox (Miss Kitty has a non-invasive procedure as well), leopard skin, hair extensions, spack...er makeup, and the fire will provide just the soft lighting to set off the whole ensemble. You'll be beating off 18 year-olds with a stick in no time.

i'm in!:clap:
NoHall avatar
hmmmm......can't remember
#22
I think we have a theme for the soiree!

Sowal Extreme Cougar Makeover!

You just have to show up. We'll bring the botox (Miss Kitty has a non-invasive procedure as well), leopard skin, hair extensions, spack...er makeup, and the fire will provide just the soft lighting to set off the whole ensemble. You'll be beating off 18 year-olds with a stick in no time.

i'm in!:clap:

Sounds great--is there a makeup makeup date?

I have one condition: Can we do all this without the dating at the end? I'm with scooterbug. The only thing worse than being stood up is dating.
DD avatar
SoWal Expert
#23
Sounds great--is there a makeup makeup date?

I have one condition: Can we do all this without the dating at the end? I'm with scooterbug. The only thing worse than being stood up is dating.

Oh please. I'm sorry to tell you that you and sb do not qualify as cougars. :wave:
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#24
When's your birthday? This Friday? Or, are you celebrating someone else?

Mine is Friday........:blush:
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#25
That can be arranged, if necessary!

And just for the record-- it most definitely was not you, but him who missed out on something great the other night! What a dumb bass! :roll::wub:;-):wave:

OMG..I LOVE YOU, kitlit............:wub:
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#26
Do we know if batturd is ok? He's not laid up in the hospital or in a ditch somewhere is he? I don't feel badly bashing a batturd if I know he's alive and well......and, just being a batturd. But, if he were sick or dying or something, I'd feel badly about it........do we know?

He finally called me the next day...because he finally answered his phone and recieved my message........he's alive. He was hung over from the night before and fell asleep.:pissed:

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