I know your pain....
I also feel the same as many of you do when it comes to my hair......the funny thing is I do hair. I just moved here from Tennessee where I did some extra training with Aveda, I'm nearly completely Aveda certified and I'm looking for a place around here to finish out my training. As of right now I've not had a haircut since last November, besides some small trimming that I've done on my own, I'm terrified of somebody cutting off the long locks that I've worked so hard to grow. I myself don't know who to go to in this area and am currently holding out until I can find a place. I have blonde hair for the most part, that is the parts that I can reach myself to do my own highlighting, can't wait until I can relax my arms and be pampered by someone I can trust to do me right. My mother loves the way I do her hair. I usually use a couple of different shades with a weaving technique to give her a more natural appearence. She swears I'm the only one she trusts with her hair, she too has had many bad experiences.
I will tell you this....the box colors in the store have metallic dyes in them. Those metallic dyes are so unpredictable, they leave you with colors you may not like, some are okay looking initially but the after effects are bad for your hair. Alot of times putting those metallic dyes in your hair can alter the way other hair color reacts to your hair....for instance....say you do your hair once with a box color with metallic dyes in it and then the next time you want to do your hair the new color may not fully absorb into the hair strand, so the color won't last as long, or say you use a box color and then decide to go to the salon on the next go around, the metallic dyes can prevent any other color from fully aborbing into the hairstrand, leaving parts of your hair strand different colors as the other parts on the same strand of hair, in turn leaving your color uneven in tone. Not to say this is always the case, it depends on the amount of metallic dyes used in the color. But when it comes to my hair and the color I put on it, I deffinately don't want to leave a slight chance that anything of that sort happens.
Well, goodluck to those hunting a new stylist, and let me know if you find somewhere you like. I'm hunting myself for a good place in this area to work, I'm currently in the process of changing my Tennessee hair license over to a Florida hair license, and can't wait to get back to work doing hair. I'd love to find a great Aveda Spa in this area!
Mandi