I am sure Minnie will chime in here and give her wonderful advice as she has clearly been more than me.
Here are my thoughts. With that many kids and only 2 adults I would stay somewhere on property with an adjoining room??
The next hurdle is how much you wanna pay????
I have stayed in the economy hotels at Disney and then the top resort hotels as well. I for one am there for the parks, not the pools at the resorts. Because of this, I would rather only pay around $100 or less for a room b/c all I am doing is sleeping.
- The value resorts are theme decorated (music, sports, movies) and children love them. THere is a cafeteria that is on the property which is very resonably priced, a pool, gift shop and also a bar area where adults can unwind. ;-) The rooms are just that, rooms. No frills, they are decorated cute but that is about it. To get to the parks from these hotels you take a bus that is if you dont mind public transportation.
- The medium priced resorts are a little step up. You will have another restaraunt on site that is not cafetieria style. I think the prices at the cafeterias at these resorts are more than the economy resorts but I could be wrong. These resorts are much larger when it comes to the grounds. THey may have a lake or something that brings them a "step up" from the value resorts. THe rooms, to me, are just the same. Decorated with theme and that is it. You use a bus to get to and from the parks. Some may have a boat to get to Epcot. I am not positive on this one....
- The high priced resorts are really beautiful. They generally have a wonderful location and a view of the park from the hotel. Of course you have to pay for that view.;-) We splurged one time and stayed at the Contemporary with a park view. How nice to sit on your balcony and watch the fireworks.
These resorts usually have a character themed meal of some sort, maybe one or two sit down restaraunts and a small cafeteria style with very limited items when compared to the other resorts. What is nice is that you can take the monorail to some of the parks (i think all but animal kingdom) so you dont have to do the bus thing. The rooms may be a little nicer but I dont think so. They dont compare to the Intercontinental, mariott, or the Hilton for the same price as far as bedding.
When you go the website make sure you click on the florida resident button. I have received some great deals on tickets and rooms by using this. I do believe that there are packages that contain meals but I have never used them. Maybe someone else will chime in and tell you (and me) if they are worth it.
I am no expert just been more than the average bear I guess. Little IBD is 6 and has been about 8 times so far. Such a shame that school has to get in the way of good mouse fun...
Let me know what you decide, and now you have given me the bug....now when is spring break??;-)