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SHELLY

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Jun 13, 2005
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What do they both get out of the experience personally?

...nothing--nor should one always look for "what they get of of the experience," it's an act of giving--not getting. A greedy person can neither recognize, nor comprehend <nor appreciate> a selfless act.

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ItzKatzTime

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Apr 27, 2006
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I have to sleep on all of this and come back tomorrow with a fresh and open mind! I'm trying not to place "greed" into a box. It's more like a prism. The more you look at it the more you see that it has a far reaching effect on the inner being.....regardless if it is physical, mental or spiritual.
 

WhoDat1

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Greed implies excess. Doing for others is true success. However, we are all greedy in some ways.
 
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traderx

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Greed implies excess. Doing for others is true success. However, we are all greedy in some ways.

If greed is excess then by definition wouldn't Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Donald Trump, et al, all be greedy? Nevermind how many jobs and how much wealth for others they have created.
 

Miss Kitty

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Greed implies excess. Doing for others is true success. However, we are all greedy in some ways.

Great post, but the first sentence makes me ask some things...


Is it greedy to strive for more $$ in your career, by going back to school for a degree or gaining more knowledge through CE?

Is it greedy to want to have some excess money left over from one's paycheck, as to not be living paycheck to paycheck?

Is it greedy to have a savings account?

Is it greedy to invest excess $$ for one's retirement?

Is it greedy to buy a second home?

Your second sentence is so true. I have been on thinking roll about this very thing, trying to come up with more ideas on how to be effective. My daughter, the social worker, is here for a few days and I am picking her brain.

Your third sentence is so true.
 

Lynnie

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On airlines: place the mask over your mouth first, then help others....or, some version of that.

There is a benefit to greed when it is utilized properly. My guess is that we all here can discern this for ourselves with ease.

I believe greed fell upon us with the inception of human beings. I also believe helping others entered these societies simultaneously with greed.

We have to be good stewards to ourselves in order to be good stewards to others. This doesn' necessarily mean one is greedy.

I am greedy with french fries and shoes. But, I sure do love to cook for others!!
 

ItzKatzTime

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Apr 27, 2006
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Greed is an ugly word???

I didn't start this thread with thoughts that Greed is just about money. It seems that is our first thoughts though when we hear the word ~ greed. The word itself to the eye is such an ugly word G-R-E-E-D.

We seem to get our noses bent out of shape if anyone dares to think us greedy if we have "things" or live in a certain neighborhood or drive that SUV. We live in fear of losing what we have and not getting what we have worked for.....when it goes on all around us....and we painfully try to deny it even when it happens to ourselves, family and friends.

It seems greed is a thirst that can't be quenched....regardless if it is money, power, food, property, and on and on. But I still cannot get a grip on when it began on this earth. I have a feeling the future holds a need for greed....just to survive. Is there hope beyond greed?

I found this article interesting, written anonomously....it certainly sparks a vast roller coaster of feelings. It's rather lengthy. I skimmed through, but want to go back and read it with an open mind. I do know somethings that were in the article pinched a nerve. Ouch!

http://therearenosunglasses.wordpre...-sucking-*****-from-which-their-is-no-escape/
 
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GoodWitch58

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Great post, but the first sentence makes me ask some things...


Is it greedy to strive for more $$ in your career, by going back to school for a degree or gaining more knowledge through CE?

Is it greedy to want to have some excess money left over from one's paycheck, as to not be living paycheck to paycheck?

Is it greedy to have a savings account?

Is it greedy to invest excess $$ for one's retirement?

Is it greedy to buy a second home?

Your second sentence is so true. I have been on thinking roll about this very thing, trying to come up with more ideas on how to be effective. My daughter, the social worker, is here for a few days and I am picking her brain.

Your third sentence is so true.

Miss Kitty:

I don't think any of these things makes one greedy. IMO greed is an attitude or a perspective from inside one's self. It is not the things one acquires that make one greedy, it is the attitude about those things and the attitude one has towards others.

A good example to me is the developer who comes into South Walton. He or she does whatever necessary to get the proper permits; cares nothing about destroying wetlands; removes trees needlessley, tries to plant non-native trees and plants to replace the native ones he had destroyed; builds houses too close together; sometimes uses inferior materials and workmanship; and then sells the properties at a huge profit or walks away from the project when the market falls and the property won't sell.

This developer takes his profit and goes onto the next venue with no thought for the damage he has left behind in the community from which he received his money.

Another developer comes in and works with the community so that his project is compatible with the community; meets with the neighbors to get buy-in from them; modifies some plans if it makes a difference; works with the natural ecosystem to perserve it; and then contributes to the local hospitals, libraries, schools, or protection services; sometimes because rules say they must, often because they realize it is good business.

Both of these developers make money. But only one the first one is greedy IMO. The second is not greedy because they have added value to the community from which they received their profit. They receive value not only in money, but in the good will of the people. They demonstrate an understanding of what it means to be a good steward of the land and they value the relationships they form with the people.

I hope we will hear what your daughter's perspective on this question is. It is something we have tackeled in an Ethics class. The students amaze me! They almost always get it and it is refreshing to see that many of the college students today are enthusiastic about both public service and the environment. They want to work together so that our world is a better place for all of us. It is refreshing.
 
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30ashopper

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Right here!
...nothing--nor should one always look for "what they get of of the experience," it's an act of giving--not getting. A greedy person can neither recognize, nor comprehend <nor appreciate> a selfless act.

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An act of giving produces a good feeling in oneself. If giving didn't make you feel good, you wouldn't do it. Hence, it is a selfish act. Greed is excess want, in this case, someone who continually gives to get that good feeling again and again, is greedy.
 
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ItzKatzTime

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Apr 27, 2006
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well, you probably are getting more than you asked for in this discussion; but, I am glad you posted. This topic is similar to the discussion on race that is beginning to happen around the country. One that we need to talk about. I found this article interesting having to do with current events:

Thank you gw! Actually I'm getting exactly what I wanted.... an open discussion concerning greed. I think by asking "when it began" was a way to open this up. :clap: The article was very interesting!!! Greeds Hurts....so true!
 
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