Dangitall, Y'all! I need your help. The item I just didn't win, the seller emailed me and said she has another one that she will sell for my max bid. Think I should negotiate? How do these people have so many of these items anyway?
It sounds like you were bidding against the seller's sock puppet Lynnie and they won by mistake trying to get your bid up! Unless its a very unique item, I would tell them no thanks!

ps What was it, if you don't mind my asking? You got me curious! ;-)