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Okay here it goes. You all know we have an adorable little boy that you have seen pictures of.
The problem is, he's almost 2 and he still wakes up every night at about 11 and refuses to sleep in his bed. We asked the doctor what to do and he said to let him scream for about ten minutes and then go tell him hat "everything's okay" and let him scream for another ten minutes and repeat until he's sleep. But this kid will not give up. He can shake the windows in the house when he screams.

We usually give in at about 2 or 3 am and put him in the bed with us so we can try to get some sleep. I'm sure you all are familiar with how a 2 year old sleeps in the bed with you - sideways. His head is usually digging into my ribcage and his feet are kicking Mama in the side of the head.

Peapod, you have 4 so I know you have an answer to this one....

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percy
#52
You'll do just fine and he will be in college one day flunking chemistry. Oh sorry...nuther thread. :wub:
:funn: Good one!
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#53
You'll do just fine and he will be in college one day flunking chemistry. Oh sorry...nuther thread. :wub:

I made a C in chemistry at Auburn and I had never been so proud of myself. Little man slept all by himself last night. I had to wake him up this morning before I left for work. What's up with that? He must have been tired! I feel like a new man after that night of sleep.

-Isn't it awesome waking up a little one. They always wake up so happy. :wub:

:clap_1:
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SoWal Insider
#54
I made a C in chemistry at Auburn and I had never been so proud of myself. Little man slept all by himself last night. I had to wake him up this morning before I left for work. What's up with that? He must have been tired! I feel like a new man after that night of sleep.

-Isn't it awesome waking up a little one. They always wake up so happy. :wub:

:clap_1:

Yay and yes!! :clap_1: :clap_1: :clap_1:
:wub:
SoWal Insider
#55
-Isn't it awesome waking up a little one. They always wake up so happy. :wub:

:clap_1:

It is sweet. They're always happy to see you! It's a good feeling.
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Beach FanaticAuthor
#56
It is sweet. They're always happy to see you! It's a good feeling.

I can't imagine waking up like that. Actually smiling.
SoWal Insider
#57
I can't imagine waking up like that. Actually smiling.
Well, you know, it does actually stop after they get to be about 6 yrs. old!
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Beach Fanatic
#58
I made a C in chemistry at Auburn and I had never been so proud of myself. Little man slept all by himself last night. I had to wake him up this morning before I left for work. What's up with that? He must have been tired! I feel like a new man after that night of sleep.

-Isn't it awesome waking up a little one. They always wake up so happy. :wub:

:clap_1:
Enjoy it now...once they get to school...not much happiness in the morning!
Beach Lover
#59
-Isn't it awesome waking up a little one. They always wake up so happy. :wub:

:clap_1:[/QUOTE]
:wub: You said it LL. This past September, at the age of 51, Mr. Sea Star and I found ourselves among the growing number of grandparents raising the grandchild. We literally received a 6 month old, out of the blue, with no advance notice. We were blown away (what's going to happen to retirement, etc.) but I wouldn't trade our little Sofia for anything in the world. We have survived, have a beautiful nursery, all the baby equipment we need, found a great day care so I can continue working, have developed a routine that works for us and I feel 20 years younger. Having a child at our age was never in our plans, but parenting is so much easier for us than it was when we were in our twenties. And when that alarm clock goes off, and I don't think I can get up and do it one more day, that beautiful smiling face changes my whole world.
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#60
I made a C in chemistry at Auburn and I had never been so proud of myself.

Note from LL's Chem Prof on every exam:
Every experiment does not include THE ADDITION OF BEER or THE CHEMICAL FORMULA FOR BEER! :floor:
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Christini Zambini
#61
-Isn't it awesome waking up a little one. They always wake up so happy. :wub:

:clap_1:
:wub: You said it LL. This past September, at the age of 51, Mr. Sea Star and I found ourselves among the growing number of grandparents raising the grandchild. We literally received a 6 month old, out of the blue, with no advance notice. We were blown away (what's going to happen to retirement, etc.) but I wouldn't trade our little Sofia for anything in the world. We have survived, have a beautiful nursery, all the baby equipment we need, found a great day care so I can continue working, have developed a routine that works for us and I feel 20 years younger. Having a child at our age was never in our plans, but parenting is so much easier for us than it was when we were in our twenties. And when that alarm clock goes off, and I don't think I can get up and do it one more day, that beautiful smiling face changes my whole world.[/QUOTE]

Sea Star,

What a wonderful thing you are doing. Your grandchild is very blessed to have grandparents like you! Good Luck!
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Beach FanaticAuthor
#62
Note from LL's Chem Prof on every exam:
Every experiment does not include THE ADDITION OF BEER or THE CHEMICAL FORMULA FOR BEER! :floor:

:lolabove:

I tried to make beer in college and it tasted like crap. :puke:

Tangent: I'm about to walk into my last management meeting this morning. :clap_1: I'm not even sure why they asked me to come. :idontno:
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Meow
#63
:lolabove:

I tried to make beer in college and it tasted like crap. :puke:

Tangent: I'm about to walk into my last management meeting this morning. :clap_1: I'm not even sure why they asked me to come. :idontno:

This is the best news of the day LL!!! Bon Voyage to whitey...the man, not the FUNN! Although, I guess she is leaving as well!!!!
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#64
Sea Star, I work in the court system and see this happening more and more often. One of my friends is also raising her grandchild, what a blessing this child has been to her. I commend you and your husband for undertaking something you never thought you would have to do. Just goes to show that we never know what the future has in store for us. Much success to you and your husband.
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Darlene is my middle name, not my nickname
#65
I made a C in chemistry at Auburn and I had never been so proud of myself. Little man slept all by himself last night. I had to wake him up this morning before I left for work. What's up with that? He must have been tired! I feel like a new man after that night of sleep.

-Isn't it awesome waking up a little one. They always wake up so happy. :wub:

:clap_1:

Yea!!! Great news LL. Now when they get to be 12 they do not wake up so happy. My son and I had a trying morning..ugh I hate it when we have words before he leaves for school. Oh, this too shall pass I tell myself. Glad you got a good nights sleep!!!!!
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#66
:lolabove:


Tangent: I'm about to walk into my last management meeting this morning. :clap_1: I'm not even sure why they asked me to come. :idontno:

Big pay raise to get you to stay? :clap_1:
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Darlene is my middle name, not my nickname
#67
Tangent: I'm about to walk into my last management meeting this morning. :clap_1: I'm not even sure why they asked me to come. :idontno:

You Go LL. Tell whitey good bye, and enjoy your new career!!!!!
Beach Fanatic
#68
Mine is a totallly different response than the others, so don't blast me for my opinion. Let the child sleep on a pallet by the bed. Then work him out of the room.. Both of my girls slept with us, and we DID find time for us :clap_1:. I asked a psychologist friend about it, and her response was that in many countries children sleeping with parents is normal and not uncommon. In our country it is taboo. We both worked, and losing a hour or two of sleep over crying was just not worth it. Both girls left of their own free will. I think back and realize (with both of them gone) that it was not so bad. They are very secure and self confident. Do what you need to do to survive.
We did this and actually kind of miss it now.
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Beach FanaticAuthor
#69
You Go LL. Tell whitey good bye, and enjoy your new career!!!!!

That's exactly what I did. The meeting lasted seven minutes. :floor:
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Darlene is my middle name, not my nickname
#70
That's exactly what I did. The meeting lasted seven minutes. :floor:

Your free, free at last!!!!! YEAH!!!!!!!!!!! :clap_1: :clap_1: :clap_1: :clap_1:
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Beach FanaticAuthor
#71
Your free, free at last!!!!! YEAH!!!!!!!!!!! :clap_1: :clap_1: :clap_1: :clap_1:

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Beach Fanatic
#72
Mine is a totallly different response than the others, so don't blast me for my opinion. Let the child sleep on a pallet by the bed. Then work him out of the room.. Both of my girls slept with us, and we DID find time for us :clap_1:. I asked a psychologist friend about it, and her response was that in many countries children sleeping with parents is normal and not uncommon. In our country it is taboo. We both worked, and losing a hour or two of sleep over crying was just not worth it. Both girls left of their own free will. I think back and realize (with both of them gone) that it was not so bad. They are very secure and self confident. Do what you need to do to survive.

This and the "family bed" are coming into practice in the US.

I've thought a little about it and think it can be a very good thing. Security and love are good and common sense really. Then again - insecurity and independance is probably what made America great. But imo, America would be greater with more love and self worth.

Fear is the enemy.
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Beach FanaticAuthor
#73
This and the "family bed" are coming into practice in the US.

I've thought a little about it and think it can be a very good thing. Security and love are good and common sense really. Then again - insecurity and independance is probably what made America great. But imo, America would be greater with more love and self worth.

Fear is the enemy.

Beach Lover
#74
Sea Star, I work in the court system and see this happening more and more often. One of my friends is also raising her grandchild, what a blessing this child has been to her. I commend you and your husband for undertaking something you never thought you would have to do. Just goes to show that we never know what the future has in store for us. Much success to you and your husband.
:shock: Thanks, dbuck. We are going to need everyone's good wishes and prayers.
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Beach Fanatic
#75
-Isn't it awesome waking up a little one. They always wake up so happy. :wub:

:clap_1:
:wub: You said it LL. This past September, at the age of 51, Mr. Sea Star and I found ourselves among the growing number of grandparents raising the grandchild. We literally received a 6 month old, out of the blue, with no advance notice. We were blown away (what's going to happen to retirement, etc.) but I wouldn't trade our little Sofia for anything in the world. We have survived, have a beautiful nursery, all the baby equipment we need, found a great day care so I can continue working, have developed a routine that works for us and I feel 20 years younger. Having a child at our age was never in our plans, but parenting is so much easier for us than it was when we were in our twenties. And when that alarm clock goes off, and I don't think I can get up and do it one more day, that beautiful smiling face changes my whole world.[/QUOTE]

Hats off to you :clap_1: It will rewarding for many years to come.
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#76


'night John boy.

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