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Got Stood Up!!!!!

seagrovegirl avatar
Beach Fanatic
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Life of a 40 something single girl just sucks...(can I say that Kurt).......Was stood up Saturday night....and I am really sad and questioning my self worth...am I old? Am I too fat? Is my hair not right? Was there a bugger in my nose??? What gives??? Advice please!!!!

I am not fishing for compliments....just want anyone who wishes to join in on the pity party. :confused:

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Will B avatar
Moderator
#77
He's a suitor! He's bonafide!
Lynnie avatar
SoWal Insider
#78
I found the best guy....gardens, can cook up a storm, cleans, dresses better than me and has more shoes than me and Kitlit put together, and his house looks like a designer showcase that he designed himself............and he's NOT gay.....:clap: Did I mention he is gorgeous, considerate and interesting and FUN. Retired navy Special Op's, yep....he can be tuff and tender. He's mine girls...so keep your hands off!!!!

You think the above is nice....listen up......he decided I needed more color in my bedroom and suprised me with all new bedding (purple and white), pillows, lamps, etc. Then....yes there is more....roses and crown royal, he is landscaping my yard and created and bought the stuff for the most awesome water feature ever....and brought a stereo system for my back porch so I can enjoy my yard and listen to music. And he comes over with groceries.........PINCH ME!!!!:wub:

Oh..one more thing....he sprayed my pillows with his cologne so I will remember him when he is not here and he brought me one of his shirts (with cologne scent) that I can wear around the house.

Haven't been stood up yet...in fact he shows up when I am not expecting him, usually when I am mowing or washing the dogs, it seems....when I am looking less than girlie. :biggrin:

:wub: Keep us posted, Girl!!! Wishing Y'all groovy times!!
Matt J avatar
SWGB
#79
Are those wedding bells? We better get an invite, with skillz like those I'm sure he'll throw quite the soiree.
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#80
No doubt he could, however I think it is WAY too early for that discussion. I'm a bit gun shy on that subject.

He's an amazing man and I hope to keep him around for a long time and I think bells would just screw up a grayt thing! I think he would agree. Be happy...very simple.
Miss Kitty avatar
Meow
#81
No doubt he could, however I think it is WAY too early for that discussion. I'm a bit gun shy on that subject.

He's an amazing man and I hope to keep him around for a long time and I think bells would just screw up a grayt thing! I think he would agree. Be happy...very simple.

I was going to say that was quick! But, this love thang can find you when you least suspect it! :clap:Hold on to him at least until the Fall soiree. ;-) Be happy!
Matt J avatar
SWGB
#82
I was going to say that was quick! But, this love thang can find you when you least suspect it! :clap:Hold on to him at least until the Fall soiree. ;-) Be happy!

Let's see how he does when he meets Bobby Sue. :eek:
Miss Kitty avatar
Meow
#83
Let's see how he does when he meets Bobby Sue. :eek:

:lolabove:....I'm betting BS would be getting a makeover.
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#84
Let's see how he does when he meets Bobby Sue. :eek:

He met BobbySue on the first date......even brought a steak over for her. He did grayt...BobbySue on the other hand is a totally different story.
KISH7374 avatar
Beach Fanatic
#85
When you least expect it, life bites you on the behind. Isn't it great?
scooterbug44 avatar
SoWal Expert
#86
Wow, you definitely got the karmic payback for the arse who spawne dthis thread!

New guy sounds GREAT and just what you deserve!!!

Does he have a son for me? :biggrin:
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#87
Meet the man that makes dating worth while............
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#89
Hmmm> I had to look that one up. Nope...just a slight resemblance to the "here's your sign" dude. Paul is a bonified California Surfer dude, I am trying to gently aclimate him to Southernism's. Although he has met BobbySue, I thought it best to toughen him up a bit before he meets Crazy K (a.k.a. Mz. Lillie).:blink:
Matt J avatar
SWGB
#90
Yeah, Crazy K may be a line he's not willing to cross. :funn:
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#91
I know.......Crazy won't be here til July.....so I am biding my time and hope for the best after that....
Crazy K avatar
Beach Lover
#92
I know.......Crazy won't be here til July.....so I am biding my time and hope for the best after that....
Git ready, Sista!!!!! Did ya read my post about the big bear? You know how close the mailbox is to my house. I just might sit outside tonite and wait on his return!
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#93
Git ready, Sista!!!!! Did ya read my post about the big bear? You know how close the mailbox is to my house. I just might sit outside tonite and wait on his return!

Yes Crazy...you can even scare a bear! Leave him alone.:biggrin:
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#94
Git ready, Sista!!!!! Did ya read my post about the big bear? You know how close the mailbox is to my house. I just might sit outside tonite and wait on his return!

You will be back when?????????:shock:
sunspotbaby avatar
SoWal Insider
#95
Meet the man that makes dating worth while............

Good Eye SGG! :clap: So happy for you! :wave:
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#96
Good Eye SGG! :clap: So happy for you! :wave:

Thank you! He's still around...haven't "skeered" this one off yet!:biggrin: Not that I plan too. Still worried about the meet and greet with Crazy K.:yikes:
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#97
I bet I could sell tickets for the "howdy" from Crazy K to Paul..(now known as a member of sowal.com......ca surfer boy). I hope sowal will give him a warm welcome.
Crazy K avatar
Beach Lover
#98
I bet I could sell tickets for the "howdy" from Crazy K to Paul..(now known as a member of sowal.com......ca surfer boy). I hope sowal will give him a warm welcome.
I'll take the proceeds from the ticket sales!!!! Remember he's meeting Joel too!!
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#99
Ahhhh Sheet!!!! Ca Surefer Boy gets to meet Dune-Ahhhh tomorrow night! (she has seen his person, but not had the chance for the filet and grill) I'm sure you will get the full interrogation update. Bobby J's family already did one, and as far as i know he is welcome to come back to their home. He is quite polite and still a bit puzzled by the "southern qurckiness".....(not spelling to well tonight)....must be having a kittyism.....

Mixology students next door practicing on me......ever have a Duck Fart???? If it has Crown Royal....I'll drink anything!
seagrovegirl avatar
Beach FanaticAuthor
#100
Oh well........I'm back on the market again.
sunspotbaby avatar
SoWal Insider
#101
Oh well........I'm back on the market again.


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