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scooterbug44

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May 8, 2007
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I think most of this applies to any oversharing on any internet site, but thought it was interesting to hear that insurance companies, lawyers, and debt collectors are using Facebook very effectively.

10 Ways Facebook Can Ruin Your Life - Newsweek
We know that Facebook can be good for your health, and that it can make everything from networking to sharing photos easier. But there's also a potentially sinister side, even aside from dubious privacy issues. Below, 10 ways that Facebook can do more harm than good.

2. Your creditors can track you down. Creditors use Facebook as a way to both track the movements of debtors and keep their eyes on any potential assets that could be seized to cover those debts. At first, lenders may use Facebook to dtermine whether you are a good candidate for a loan. But should you come to owe a creditor money, the company can track you down and discover your assets by monitoring your Facebook feed.

3. Your insurers can deny your claims. Remember the woman who was receiving worker's comp for depression, only to be "outed" by Facebook pictures of her smiling? Her insurance benefits were cut off, with insurers saying that her photos showed she was ready to return to work. That's left disability attorneys concerned. Many now advise against giving away too much on Facebook.

4. Your ex can use it against you in a divorce. Facebook is a popular tool for divorce attorneys, who comb pages of their clients' spouses for evidence of neglect, infidelity, or deception. (One study suggests that Facebook comes up in one out of 5 new divorce petitions. A woman lost custody of her children after her ex proved she was spending time tending her crops on Farmville instead of spending quality time with her kids, while divorce lawyers have given multiple interviews extolling the site's virtues as a way to air damaging dirty laundry.

6. It can cost you a job. A British survey of employers found that 1/2 of those polled had turned down job candidates once something unsavory about that candidate surfaced on Facebook. (Examples include tales of drunkenness, photos of illegal activity, and bad grammar.) In the U.S., 20% of employers admit to scoping out the Facebook pages of potential job candidates, while 9 percent say they're going to start soon.

7. It can out you to your family. Even if you're discreet on Facebook, your loose-lipped friends might not be and could post comments on your wall that betray your secrets. But there are also more insidious outings going on: MIT students designed an algorithm that successfully pinpointed gay users by analyzing how many of their friends were gay.
 
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Gidget

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May 27, 2009
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Those are great!!

For me, facebook has been a real tool in getting the word out about green clean energy alternatives. It has connected me with people interested in many of the things I find important. Most of my BEST and closest friends are people I've never met. Interesting. I've known them for years now and we just "click" - like computer dating I guess but as friends and most are women. We found things we had in common and went from there. And HATS really took off because of Facebook! What a way to get a cause going about the oil spill and oil drilling off our coasts.

I do know of 2 people who have had online facebook "affairs" and have since gotten divorced! I'm sure facebook has been used in court on many an occasion.

I mostly bug the crap out of people about solar and healthy eating. Ha - most of my "friends" probably have me "hidden" anyway. I do love keeping up with family photos and goings ons with just a click.

Oh- I play NONE of the games on FB. Thank goodness as I hear they are addictive as heck.

Thanks for the article SB

Gidget :D
 

kitlit

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Dec 11, 2007
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Ha - most of my "friends" probably have me "hidden" anyway.


I would NEVER hide you, Gidg! :love:

Although, I do know several other people that I HAVE had to "hide"... I don't like people who are "negative nancies"--always saying how they hate their jobs, think that life sucks...

I also tend to hide super-duper cutesy pregnant people--nothing against them, I just really, really don't need a moment by moment update on how the pregnancy's coming, complete with bowel movement reports and icky advice from the doctor... I knew one girl who posted all of her status updates from the viewpoint of the unborn child... (i.e., "Little Billy" is sooo hungry! He is thinking that tacos sound really yummy, but he's worried that's it's going to give mommy indigestion! Yes, it will!) Ugh. Yeah, had to hide her pretty darn quick.

Also, I really hate people who use a lot of profanity. When every other word is F*** and G**D****, it's generally time to hit the hide button.

Other than that, I love that I've been in touch with so many old friends! Growing up on military bases, a huge number of my childhood friends either went into the service or married into it, and are stationed all over the world. In one night, I can chat with Chrissy in Germany, and Eileen in California, and Andy in Iraq... You get the picture. I love that, because I'm the type of person who never gets rid of friends. :blush: It's fantastic, being able to keep up with everybody!
 

ChillPill

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Apr 8, 2009
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Umm, it can affect your mathematical skills? :dunno:

I didn't post the whole thing! :lol:

:lolabove: Funny!

Thanks for the post Scooterbug, it is so true, I can't believe what people post for all the world to see!

My fb page definitely looks like I should work for the Tourist Development Council. Lots of beach, local art & wildlife pictures.

And so... now I have had so much company visiting I don't have time to get on fb much anymore. ha.
 
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Will B

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Jan 5, 2006
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I deactivated my account 8 months ago after coming to the realization that even though I had amassed a large number of friends I was only keeping up with the ones that I was close to pre-Facebook.

I never missed it and never looked back...

So to all of you who were my Facebook friends and thought that I may have defriended you it was nothing personal. I am an equal opportunity non-discrminatory defriender!
 

BeachbumAggie

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Jun 6, 2008
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I'm fairly selective on who I accept as a FB friend and never take the time to look for people unless they pop up on my suggestions page I don't request. I have a huge family and it's great for keeping up and sharing photo's and I have enjoyed catching back up with some people from high school and college that I had lost touch with over the years. There are some folks that I have hidden or unfriended. Luckily most of my friends are established in their professions and don't do any crazy posting or crazy pictures! I have declined some ex-boyfriends and many folks that I didn't like or just really didn't care to be in contact with again-seems safer that way!
 

Will B

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Jan 5, 2006
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I had made a self imposed rule that said I would not accept a friend request unless I knew that person on a personal one on one level. Crossover Sowal friends were an exception. I thought that would be a good filter. Despite adhering to the rule I had run up over 450 friends. It was a little out of control and rediculous. I also got tired of ignoring countless people who could not have a thought or bodily function and not post about it. FB pretty much ran its course with me...
 

BeachbumAggie

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Jun 6, 2008
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Arlington, TX
I do hide or unfriend those tmi posters! I have another friend who got rid of everyone outside of her family and close friends and tightened her privacy settings.
 
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