I also recommend Graffitis. Grayt food and the service was good when we were there a few months ago. When you see the food, it will be obvious that the owners and Oli have a lot in common!
I second Griffitis. Pretty good food and the music was good. Then go to Famous Door, no nevermind, you'll have the kids with you. But when you are in the mood to dance, then that's the place to go. IMHO.
Famous Door is more of a late night place with dancing. I think they open somewhere around 9 or ten. There are a few tables to sit at and an outside patio adjacent to the bay. I would also check out the music at Hammerheads right next to Famous Door.