As far as the cousins - that would be Van & Donna. Van Ness' wife, Jonnye, is my late mom's sister.
However, I grew up here with all "the grandchildren" and now many of our kids are growing up here with each other too. I am often asked if I'm kin to the Infingers and we all laugh and say we might as well be, because that's easier than explaining why we aren't.
Also, I'm kin by marriage to the Butlers through the other side of my family too. Van Ness' cousin, Albert, is married to my late dad's sister. (Freaked out yet?) It is truly a small world.
Grandpa Butler once explained to me that he wanted to go to FSU but they wouldn't let him in. See, back then it was all-female (and you've been told how he liked to look at the ladies!).