Don't ask, Don't tell

[Matt J]

I am sometimes uncomfortable with the way Cowboy looks at me when I am in the shower.

If a female looks at me with desires in the spa dressing area, well.....that's her issue, not mine. And, if it has happened, I was oblivious.....does that mean I am comfortable with my heterosexuality enough to not be concerned?

Some people believe sexuality is entirely soul and energy, not necessarily a male or female thing. (They might be kinda' strange....just kidding.) But, this probably lends some explanation to attraction of the same gender......if and when it occurs.

Cowboy is probably perplexed as to why you get in that box and soak yourself when you have a perfectly good tongue.

 

[Lynnie]

Cowboy is probably perplexed as to why you get in that box and soak yourself when you have a perfectly good tongue.

NS! He is going to be fit to be tied when he comes inside......it's raining! The worst!!!!

 

[scooterbug44]

Not in the military. I think most men in uniform are pretty hot and usually are well toned.

In the military, short of worried about getting yourself killed in combat or/and protecting protecting your country, I think what probably bothers some people is the fact, married or not, we are all human. I'm sorry, but if Daniel Craig was showering next to me, there's now doubt, and I am happily married, that I would be making an effort to look at his package. (That's if I wasn't exhausted from boot camp or being in combat) Hail, I might even be tempted to look at Portia DeRossi, Ellen's partner.

But, from what I have seen as far as polls taken by service people, is the majority do not care about serving with a gay person. It seems the people who have the most issue with it are people not serving.

I have a question, though. Outside of the showering issue, I imagine the biggest problem the military will have overturning Don't ask, don't tell is benefits. Since gay marriages laws vary from State to State, if the military, being a Federal entity rules that partners are entitled to benefits, will they have to be married? and if not, what would constitute a partnership? sharing of a home? rental lease? and for how long? Wouldn't the government be setting a precedent by allowing benefits which could affect State's laws?

Oh, I never said I wouldn't look - just that my shower buddies and I could easily manage to restrain ourselves from having an orgy.

 

[ASH]

Frankly, a lot of straight (and homophobic) guys think they are a lot more attractive to gay men then they actually are - and so think they are in "danger" of unwanted attentions. The reality is that they are Roseanne Barr, not Heidi Klum. :rofl:

Now if I'm in the shower and worried, all I hafta do is stick my gut out as far as I can and burp or something. I'm saved!! I can do Roseanne Barr.

 

[Gidget]

Now if I'm in the shower and worried, all I hafta do is stick my gut out as far as I can and burp or something. I'm saved!! I can do Roseanne Barr.

Best post on thread

 

[Matt J]

Now if I'm in the shower and worried, all I hafta do is stick my gut out as far as I can and burp or something. I'm saved!! I can do Roseanne Barr.

Then you might attract a Chubby Chaser.