dunelover, after going through this with my wife, I truly know your pain. I know your looks are extremely important to you but just remember, your beauty comes from the inside. You will be in my prayers everyday. My wife's case was very extreme and she lost her battle after two years. I pray that every morning you wake up with a wonderful smile on your face and each morning when you look in the mirror and see that smile you will think you are the most beautiful women in the world. A smile will also give you the strength you need to make it through the days ahead.
That is so touching, thank you. Of course anything brings me to tears nowadays, but your post certainly did, thank you.
I think a letter to Shear Genius, a Bravo tv show about competing hairstylists would be a grayt idea...they may end up using your question as an episode. They have a panel of competing hairstylists.They once did a show using surfers and gave them new cuts but they had to work for a surfer lifestyle. So the stylists must always keep in mind the style that would best fit the needs of their client. This may be of help to you and a lot of others who are having the same questions.
I guess I don't have bravo, havn't seen it, but I will have to check it out, although not sure I would want to wait too long.
JR - I have to say short hair is so much easier for me. of course we all have our different ways of "doing" our hair whether long or short. this morning, with my new short do, it took me a fraction of the time to dry my hair, with a little gel, hardly used a brush, a tiny bit of texturizing cream, a dab of spray. and done. so much quicker and easier all the way around. I can't wait to go a little shorter next time.
Thanks tootsie, I think it is probably easier too, and just the drying part would be great, it would even be good if I could just fingertip style daily and do the major styling for going out.
I have mentioned it to my kids, and I have one that is so hesitant, I guess it is all the stress of how different our lives are now. I said when I went into this that I would try all kinds of hairstyles on the way to short if I had too, Idon't know why I am so hesitant. I guess it just shows one more way cancer has effected my life, but then again maybe it would just be cuter!!!!