use this for the candles, you need all your energy for celebrating

Good idea. I am going to Provincetown Mass where the party is in the streets with some men wearing boas and dressed like Cher and Liza.
My neighbor/BFF is already there, and he probably will have his friends rounded up to help me blow out some massive cake they are probably baking already.
So off to bed for me. Catch y'all Tuesday, thanks for the wishes, and yes, RO, I will have pics.
