Miss K, my views of God are in alignment with those within the teachings of A Course in Miracles. Marianne Williamson wrote a book based on these principles called A Return to Love. If God is Love - not loving, but love itself in the fullest, most ego-less sense of the word - as I believe He is, then what is there to fear? An entitiy that is only love is not to be feared, is not wrathful, nor judgmental. All that is God is good. It is very difficult to make meaningful progress from a position of fear. Belief in a wrathful God also makes the peace process difficult, IMO.
Great question, by the way.