I have no problem with stating your points and fighting for what you believe. But there is nothing wrong with "being all Southern nice" which simply means to communicate using common courtesy and treating people as you would like to be treated. "Being all sweet tea" would prohibit use of words like "corrupt" and "crook" without providing proof of your statement. Opinions and assumptions are not proof nor is the fact that one disagrees with you. And you have to remember that we natives grew up together and have known each other literally all of our lives. So, when you accuse someone like Mark Davis, whom I have known since school days, of being a crook, you lose me at the start. Because Mark Davis has always been a straight arrow and one of the good guys. That does not mean I always agree with him, but I always respect him. In Beachsteeler's case, I agree with him based on the facts and my personal belief system. That is all he needs to win me over.