"None of your business"? Whose business is it? Only BMBV? I think it is meant as a threat from you and that violates the user agreement, but the mediator enforces that I suppose. Do you think being emotional, angry, and abusive, to others with facts and reason you disagree with, make you superior? If not why do you do make abusive posts?
Same for Jane--who kicked sand in anyone's face? Odd emotional post that didn't add anything to the thread except to make her feel superior to others who she may disagree with. Read agreement 3.2 (c).
Might read the user agreement 3.2 again.
3.2 (a) Be courteous. You agree that you will not threaten or verbally abuse other Members, use defamatory language, or deliberately disrupt discussions with repetitive messages, meaningless messages or "spam."
3.2 (b) Use respectful language. Like any community, SoWal.com chats and message boards flourish only when our Members feel welcome and safe.
3.2 (c) Debate, but don't attack.