The best wedding we ever attended was billed as an engagement party/shower. When we arrived, there was a big tent, beuatiful food, etc., but didn't suspect a thing. We just thought the hosts had planned the most elaborat e engagement party ever! Suddenly, everyone was asked to gather at the tent, and the bride walked out of the house - she had quickly changed into a beautifully simple wedding dress. The crowd went wild!
I loved my own wedding to Bdarg- second marriage. Planned by us in 2 days, in my grandmother's rose garden. My old cattle dog stood with me as my "bridesmaid". Just immediate family and a supermarket cake with pansies on top. My dad was practically moved to tears of joy that my mom hadn't been able to plan a second "extravaganza"!!