Dating

[Matt J]

sweet baby Jesus...I missed this on the first go-round!

My boss is helping me with my anti-stalking operations. On Monday and Tuesday, I had a planning period that backed up to lunch, so I went off-campus to eat. Today I didn't have time, and had to go to the cafeteria. I was sitting apart from the cadets (and in my usual spot, actually) but managed to get behind a ficus tree.

My boss and his wife were with me on the other side of my table, and he knew that I was trying to eat as fast as I could and bug out of there. I couldn't help but laugh when he looked up and said, "Target acquired." (For you non-military folk, that means that crazy prince charming was in the building.) He ended up taking my tray for me and "covering" while I ran out the back door.

If it weren't so stressful, it would have been funny.

I do want to apologize as we are not trying to make light of your situation. Honestly you should join us, it might give you some counter-moves. Although you seem to have some back up already.

 

[scooterbug44]

You SO need to hang out w/ us more. Quite eye opening when it's pointed out that it's certainly not you, because that cute guy just made a trip to the bar's parking lot w/ another guy.

And as far as getting rid of unwanted boys, I'd want Biff in a bar fight, but SWGB for long term psychological damage and jokes.

 

[Matt J]

You SO need to hang out w/ us more. Quite eye opening when it's pointed out that it's certainly not you, because that cute guy just made a trip to the bar's parking lot w/ another guy.

And as far as getting rid of unwanted boys, I'd want Biff in a bar fight, but SWGB for long term psychological damage and jokes.

Against you or the latest psychopath?

 

[NoHall]

I do want to apologize as we are not trying to make light of your situation. Honestly you should join us, it might give you some counter-moves. Although you seem to have some back up already.

PLEASE make light of it! As soon as school is out I plan to have a good laugh over it! :funn:I really need some lightness this week...

(And maybe I'll learn something from all this, too.)

 

[Matt J]

Have you tried a shirt? It might send mixed signals though.

A book:

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[NoHall]

The saga of life at a military school continues...

Only a few weeks ago I was creeped out by an adult(ish) co-worker with a crush on me. Part of the ickiness was that I am honestly insecure enough that I don't understand men who have crushes on me.

Tonight I got a message on Facebook from a wonderful student who told me he "respectfully" has a crush on me. He was our cadet commander, and I told him that out of the few times I've been paid that compliment he was the highest-ranking and possibly most mature. (I did remind him that I graduated from high school 6 months before he was born. )

Too bad about the age thing, because he's a winner...

 

[Matt J]

This is my thread, and I'm shocked that it seems to have gotten more action that the posters in it.

 

[NoHall]

This is my thread, and I'm shocked that it seems to have gotten more action that the posters in it.

And you're married.

So what do you think of my new development? He still calls me "ma'am," which is kinda sexy...

Okay. Kidding. But it did occur to me as I watched my boss walk all the way around the car to open the door for his wife that I'm getting really, really spoiled at school. Next time I go to dinner with a man I wonder if I will be disappointed if he doesn't stand up when I am standing.

 

[Truffle Anne]

The saga of life at a military school continues...

Only a few weeks ago I was creeped out by an adult(ish) co-worker with a crush on me. Part of the ickiness was that I am honestly insecure enough that I don't understand men who have crushes on me.

Tonight I got a message on Facebook from a wonderful student who told me he "respectfully" has a crush on me. He was our cadet commander, and I told him that out of the few times I've been paid that compliment he was the highest-ranking and possibly most mature. (I did remind him that I graduated from high school 6 months before he was born. )

Too bad about the age thing, because he's a winner...

What a very nice compliment, and a very kind and confidence-building (for the young man) response by you! You're a sweetie...

 

[scooterbug44]

Worse things in life than being so "spoiled" you expect a man to have good manners and be polite!

I don't take it to the extreme of a college roommate from Texas who couldn't open a door or lift something if there was a man within 50', but sure do enjoy a man w/ manners!