Let us please not forget that over 63 million voted for Obama and many were exactly like me - we did not view Obama as a saint who could do no wrong - we were just quite excited about someone we view as incredibly intelligent, well educated, analytical, motivating and exciting and I for one am greatly looking forward to the next 4 years (and if he is good to the next 8). This does not mean he will not stumble or make mistakes but my bets for now are solidly on him.
Here is one annecdote I found particularly sad last wednesday when a 9 year old boy basically out smarted his father - a bit lengthy but you will see the gotcha moment son had with his father at the end.
I was talking with a Republican I know and like a great deal and I was explaining that I had been shocked when a 8 year old boy had seen my Obama badge and had said to me, "Obama sucks, he hates Americans and I hope he loses" - the vehemence of his verbal attack shocked me but I basically shrugged it off while feeling great sorrow for him. I was/am comforted by the fact that I have instilled in my daughters a respect for the office of the president and my 8 year old told me she would never talk like that about McCain - she and her friends talk politics lightly and after talking with my husband and I and because we explained why we preferred Obama, she was quite capable of explaining to others some of the reasons why we would like to see him elected and not a bad word was said about McCain BUT if his name did come up she would say he is honorable and a good man but that we were hoping for an Obama victory.
Anyways - back to wednesday (the day after) and this friend was telling me that when it became clear that Obama had won, he told his son to go to bed. his son (who is actually a really smart kid) said, "Dad, I am terribly scared - americans have elected a dangerous man to lead this country, he has terrorist friends, and he does not care about Americans." To which his dad replied, "Well son, Obama is now our president and he is a good man and we must wish him well." To which the son replied, "Well if this is the case, why did you and others say that he was dangerous - did you not mean this?"
I thought this was very telling because I also woke up the next day and as exhilirated as I felt I also realized that many in this country were waking up scared and frightened - not because they differ ideologically to Obama - that would be easy- but because they bought the distasteful smears that his opponent spread. McCain's concession was so gracious and generous that many of us who used to like him were left thinking where the hell that McCain had disappeared to during his campaign.
Anyways, I personally can do nothing about those people who truely fear him (like the 25% of texans who think he is muslim) - I am just really comforted that the majority in the country wish him well, are rooting for him to succeed and most of all, I am just so proud that our daughters saw us get passionate and excited about a candidate without tearing his opponent apart.