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GoodWitch58

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I agree completely with the above.

This is not as important as a fine dining restaurant (or restaurant of any kind, really), but I have often wanted to ram my shopping cart into the people who stand in the middle of the grocery store aisle--constructing a shopping list via phonewith their housemates, spouses, whomever....while they are oblivious to the fact that they have brought the traffic flow to a standstill...
and always there is TMI about their lives coming from the phone conversation.

What has happened to manners and appropriate behavior:yikes:
 

DD

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I agree completely with the above.

This is not as important as a fine dining restaurant (or restaurant of any kind, really), but I have often wanted to ram my shopping cart into the people who stand in the middle of the grocery store aisle--constructing a shopping list via phonewith their housemates, spouses, whomever....while they are oblivious to the fact that they have brought the traffic flow to a standstill...
and always there is TMI about their lives coming from the phone conversation.

What has happened to manners and appropriate behavior:yikes:

I've been asking this question for quite some time. Both these scenarios just really piss me off. Also, when you meet someone for lunch you haven't seen in a while and you're at lunch so your time is limited and they spend the whole bloomin' time on the phone!! ARGHHHHHHH!!!!! :bang:
 

John R

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I've been asking this question for quite some time. Both these scenarios just really piss me off. Also, when you meet someone for lunch you haven't seen in a while and you're at lunch so your time is limited and they spend the whole bloomin' time on the phone!! ARGHHHHHHH!!!!! :bang:

if you stand up and leave, once they notice you're gone maybe they'll get the hint.
 

bluecat

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If one is dining with someone who is rude enough to spend their time and mine talking on the phone, I don't consider it too rude to say," please excuse me,I'll go to the restroom and give you the privacy you need to FINISH your call."
 

Miss Kitty

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Even Houston's says no cell phones. Thankfully most doctor's offices and even the salon where I have my hair done have signs that request no cell phone usage.

SORRY: The day when Big D called me from China and I knew it would be my only call from him that day. That was rude of me, and I apologize. Even though we were outside, I should have gotten up from the table and had our conversation elsewhere. I just didn't anticipate us talking so long.

:lolabove:...I don't remember that one, but I do remember our dinner at Onano during a football game. :shock:
 
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DD

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if you stand up and leave, once they notice you're gone maybe they'll get the hint.

When I was invited to lunch again, I said, "only if you leave your phone in the car. " It worked.
Now, I'm sitting here trying to think of how many times I might have been rude myself. I really try not to do any of these things. But, it's sure a good reminder.
 

GoodWitch58

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I think it is mostly about being considerate of other people: if one is receiving a call from China, or, in my case when my son was deployed to the Middle East, and he could only make one call a week; then, I would tell people: I am leaving my phone on, because I do not want to miss this call.

but a grocery list--or in a restaurant? That is just unacceptable unless it there are extenuating circumstances IMO. Frankly, I don't care to share my calls with the rest of the world...and driving: it is so dangerous around here under the best of circumstances, that I almost never use my phone in the car anymore.
 

Sheila

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They talk really loud too. Do they think they are impressing those around them by sharing their personal business with strangers? I'm never impressed with rudeness or lack of manners.

Admittedly I do have an I-phone. However, it's usually buried so deep in the endless recesses of my BAP, that there is no chance of reaching it, let alone hear it when it rings. I like my phone, but it has not taken over my life or my manners.
 
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