Matt, it’s clear that you don’t know what or who you are talking about. What is clear is that, with your assumptions and theories, is that you violate the maxim/quote: “It's better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt”.It's clear that you're the homeowner. You've come to a public place to air your grievances and you don't like that people don't care about your first world problems.
Honestly, with your attitude I hope no one does get arrested. Your entitlement is ridiculous.
The actual rumor, since you want to continue this, is that you or your husband has an older child from a previous marriage who's off at boarding school and was complicit in the planning and promotion of the party as revenge for being sent off.
I am not the homeowner. I do not directly know the homeowners. That’s the first I have heard that rumor.
The reason I posted this thread is so that this will not die. . If it’s ok that people break in, throw parties, vandalize, destroy, steal personal items from homes while owners are away and LE does nothing about it, or at the very least update the public then A LOT of second homeowners, vacation rental owners should be concerned. I was thinking of the community at large in posting this.