Jill, we love and appreciate all of you!
Don't let a few sour grapes spoil your day! I've never had bad service there.
It is great that you believe in a long-lived establishment like B&A's, but based on the first poster's comments, I don't think she sounds like a sour grape. We all expect a certain basic level of service when we patronize businesses. With B&A's being The place to eat in Seaside, maybe expectations of guests are raised, but still, basic business practices must be met, in order to please the patrons, or would be patrons in this case.
Running a popular restaurant is a difficult task. I know, because I've done it. It takes screwing up only a couple of guests' evening, to start going downhill. Personally, I'm glad to see Dave on SoWal.com, apologizing for the bad experiences. Dave didn't make excuses. He just listened, apologized, and is taking action to improve his business.
That means everything in my book. Truly, the only way to improve is to know what you are doing right and what you are doing wrong. (Keep doing more of the right and less of the wrong.)