Kat, thank you so much for this opportunity. I missed the Christmas one and you have given me an opportunity to thank so many people that is overdue. I might be over 250 words but I've never been one to play by the rules and it's mostly cause I tried not to leave anyone out. ;-)
As many sowallers know, my dad was diagnosed with cancer last fall and I left Sowal to help my parents. I was gone till the end of June. I cannot express the helplessness and frustration that I felt watching my strong, confident, take-charge dad become so weak and dependent. Some of you know him. I found a strength in my mom that I never knew existed and we all became closer than I ever imagined but it was the scariest time of my life.
In the madness, I found a selfless love and unconditional acceptance in my sowal friends that I didn't know was there. I had crawled into a shell and put all my focus on my dad's illness and what it was doing to my family. From IBD calling me to make sure I knew about the Christmas exchange to Ali whisking me away to forget my problems and all those in between who opened their arms to welcome me home even when they called me and I never called back - Toots, DD, BB, Audie, jdarg, lindatat, Ms Kitty, Kurt, SJ, Timmy, Franny, Mango, Paula, Beachmom, GTBM, RO, KD, Peapod, Biff, Dune-Ahh, The Merms, Kaiboo, John R, Kat, Potato Vixen, Drunken Artist, Goofer, The Steelings & Grayton Kid, Punzy, Chickpea, Lisaatthe beach, BR, COS etc. etc. I know I missed some but I know you understand. They made coming back to Sowal this summer like "coming home" and it brings me to tears to know that I am surrounded in such beauty. I'm just coming out of my shell thanks to all of you. My summer has been the most loving summer, the most enlightening summer, the most beautiful summer that I have ever know thanks to the beauty of Sowal and the people that make it that way.
As to a lesson, it came from a special Sowaller who made a statement a couple of weeks ago that stuck with me. She said that her hubby's cancer and subsequent death gave her the opportunity to share a closeness that they would have otherwise never had. I immediately understood and found good in the most challenging experience of my life.
Home Corky! Home! ;-) Life's not always pretty. But it's always an adventure. Sometimes it's not what we've planned. But thank goodness for every day, minute and second we have to live it. The older I get the better life becomes. It's just good to have you home. ;-)