The owner was definitely at fault and doesn't deserve your business. If this is the way the owner takes care of potential renters, imagine how he takes care of his place and the people actually renting it, especially under stress.
We stayed in a place in Italy from VRBO last year (I love VRBO). We were pleased, but decided to stay in another place in the same Italian town for this summer. When the owner contacted me through email to see if we planned to rent her place again this summer, I honestly said no because we wanted to try something different (though we'd go back to her place again sometime and most likely recommend it) and (in addition) though we really liked her and her place, it didn't have enough living room furniture for us and we like to socialize a lot. Though I like her a lot, I was surprised that she didn't get back to me and say, "Thanks for the feedback, I hope you have a good time and that you consider us again. We'll be getting a few more chairs" or something like that. So, it's likely I wouldn't stay in her places again anyway because the exchange just seemed a bit curt (even if it wasn't intentional, it was an opportunity for her to kindly market her place to me for the future. So, (as an owner of a few rentals in SoWal), I know that how we respond to the "no's" is as important as how we respond to the "yes's" as owners in the long-run.
We stayed in a place in Italy from VRBO last year (I love VRBO). We were pleased, but decided to stay in another place in the same Italian town for this summer. When the owner contacted me through email to see if we planned to rent her place again this summer, I honestly said no because we wanted to try something different (though we'd go back to her place again sometime and most likely recommend it) and (in addition) though we really liked her and her place, it didn't have enough living room furniture for us and we like to socialize a lot. Though I like her a lot, I was surprised that she didn't get back to me and say, "Thanks for the feedback, I hope you have a good time and that you consider us again. We'll be getting a few more chairs" or something like that. So, it's likely I wouldn't stay in her places again anyway because the exchange just seemed a bit curt (even if it wasn't intentional, it was an opportunity for her to kindly market her place to me for the future. So, (as an owner of a few rentals in SoWal), I know that how we respond to the "no's" is as important as how we respond to the "yes's" as owners in the long-run.