I have to pipe in...4 girls, all different...have to admit #4 went to bed in our bed many, many nights...just easier and she was so cute and sweet! Many nights all the kids would be in our bed or on the floor or in each other's beds. My family jokes about us never knowing who will be sleeping where. They are all very secure and independent. They got lots of love! That is what makes them secure. I also believe whole heartedly in the discipline and in the SUPER NANNY! She shows what a small amount of consistent discipline can do for a family. It should be required viewing for every parent or parent to be. The perfect solution....a combination of love and discipline for the little LL. You'll do just fine and he will be in college one day flunking chemistry. Oh sorry...nuther thread. 

