I have lived in this beautiful place for only a year. I was born and raised on the South Side of Chicago. There are many things that make me proud of where I come from, especially the people and their character. My family and just about everyone we knew were Catholic, very hardworking, fiercely loyal and what you would probably call or think of as "GOOD people"...
My family and just about everyone we knew were also very racist and homophobic. And I didn't realize it until I left for good at 18...
I don't remember when I changed. I don't know if it was gradual. I don't know which people, places or experiences changed me...
But what I do know is when I go back to the South Side I will, on occasion, run into friends who never left. After minutes of talking with them I am absolutely shocked in how they view the world. The most shocking part, however, is realizing that this used to be me. Seeing these folks is like going back in a time machine and meeting myself back then. So bizarre...
So where am I heading with this-
I believe it is possible to be proud of your heritage and where you are from without having to be proud of everything. Be proud of your Southern heritage. But man-
(and I know you will say you could care less)
If you folks only knew what you really looked like driving around with the rebel flag to those of us who aren't natives of the South...
I might regret sharing these sentiments but here goes-
SUBMIT...
My family and just about everyone we knew were also very racist and homophobic. And I didn't realize it until I left for good at 18...
I don't remember when I changed. I don't know if it was gradual. I don't know which people, places or experiences changed me...
But what I do know is when I go back to the South Side I will, on occasion, run into friends who never left. After minutes of talking with them I am absolutely shocked in how they view the world. The most shocking part, however, is realizing that this used to be me. Seeing these folks is like going back in a time machine and meeting myself back then. So bizarre...
So where am I heading with this-
I believe it is possible to be proud of your heritage and where you are from without having to be proud of everything. Be proud of your Southern heritage. But man-
(and I know you will say you could care less)
If you folks only knew what you really looked like driving around with the rebel flag to those of us who aren't natives of the South...
I might regret sharing these sentiments but here goes-
SUBMIT...
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