america's no more an island than most countries..europe is a slightly different story, but americans don't really understand the relationships and geography there. the closer proximity makes a certain amount of cross-culturalism inevitable. but even in the UK they really didn't start speaking french or spanish until recent generations.
america's no more arrogant than any other country in which i've lived or worked! we mistake our pride for arrogance because americans don't value their differences. too bad really. we also express ourselves differently. we're more outgoing and aggressive. secretly, that's one of the things people actually like about us the most!
lots of americans also don't understand other country's cultures and that their encounters and reactions to american's culture is neither hatred nor disgust, but many times jealousy and what's considered an appropriate response to other's success- they don't assume our counter response will be self-loathing, but you know..we are americans!
i think when americans first encounter different cultures they're shocked by the lack of understanding about world events and other cultures. they are likely to blame themselves for many things. it's a charming attribute, but it's not really accurate about america's place in the world and there's not need for shame!
but some americans because they are a little unaware and culturally limited think the apporpriate response is to attack their own country and culture. pretty sad.
living languages i presume?... 3 in the home and 4 more with a bare modicom of proficiency...oh and kids are learning chinese