Incident at Cafe Rendevous last Friday

[seagrovegirl]

I'd like to know what he did to piss off the bartender??? How much did he drink before the one glass of wine he was charged for.............Did the paramedics or hospital do toxicology tests..........there is obviously more to the story/victim than is what is being mentioned. I believe the wife has a lot to say, but she wasn't there. That being said, it is terriblr that someone was hurt....no matter what he did, unless he threw the first punch.

 

[Alicia Leonard]

I thought that sounded better than just being in CR at that time of the night/morning. I do lots of stuff without my spouse, even attend beach soirees and drink (with a designated driver - thanks wrn).

Maybe I'm just old now, but if it involves a bar, people I don't know, alcohol, and the middle of the night, no good can possibly come of it.

U sound like my mama But, she was right.................

 

[jodiFL]

There is no "bouncer" at his establishment and it doesnt seem unreasonable that if a person has an injury they would be taken to the hospital for evaluation before being placed under arrest. But since the "victim" has no recollection of the incident it could be that his memories of the "blow" whether it be an elbow or closed fist could be due to being intoxicated. I have known people that even though they dont drink very much have "blackouts" after even after a small amount of alcohol. They are also the ones that are most likely to become belligerent and blame others for the problems they cause. I also know that memories can become blurry when you are woken by the police at 2 AM to be told that your spouse has been in an altercation that involved a visit to a local hospital but without a copy of the actual report given at the time of that "rude awakening" it would be pretty to hard to prove that the official one written out at the end of the officers shift are different. But if it was me, and I had been out drinking and got unruly enough to punch and be punched in return I would not be the same afterwards either. I would probably be feigning memory loss, innocence and everything else that I thought could get me out of the dog house with my spouse. As far as the cost of that one glass of wine.....have any of your ever bought a bottle of some of the wines sold there? $58 could very easily have been for one glass plus a gratuity.
Also the part about the memory (recent calls etc) being erased from a phone...everytime I drop mine and the sim card becomes even slightly dislodged from its slot it will wipe out all of the stored info.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Fortunately the man's memory has returned

 

[Calamity Jane]

Also, has anybody ever had their cell phone mysteriously erase the calls from one evening but all of the calls remain from the week before and the week after?

 

[jodiFL]

Also, has anybody ever had their cell phone mysteriously erase the calls from one evening but all of the calls remain from the week before and the week after?

Only if I was trying to hide the fact that I was calling / talking to people that I knew my spouse would not approve of or if they were calls to / from some unsavory persons that could be traced back to me and therefore link me to them or their unsavory activities. But I personally can check "ALL ACCOUNT ACTIVITY" when I log on to my carriers website. I can delete things from the memory in my phone but it is always still on the activity log at my carrier.

 

[wrobert]

Only if I was trying to hide the fact that I was calling / talking to people that I knew my spouse would not approve of or if they were calls to / from some unsavory persons that could be traced back to me and therefore link me to them or their unsavory activities.

Didn't something like that happen on 'The Wire'?

 

[jodiFL]

Didn't something like that happen on 'The Wire'?

Dont watch it. But I do keep an eye on my teens and can bring up every phone # that has ever been called from their phones. Just in case (God forbid) something should happen and I need to contact someone/ everyone they know.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Yes, fortunately all of the calls are on the account one month later. I am still really confused as to how an unconscious man erased all of the memory on his phone, especially since the police took his phone and I received it at the hospital. My calls to him during that time period when he did not have his phone were gone too....who is the one hiding unsavory activity here?

 

[Calamity Jane]

And to clarify for all readers, the police called ME from his cell phone at 2:45 am while the incident occured at 12:45 am. The police had possession of the phone for over 2 hours while the gentleman was undergoing a workup at the hospital. Again, who is the one covering unsavory activity?
And to clarify another big mistake in the paper, the gentleman was never under arrest, was never charged and has not been charged with battery.