I think Randy would ask you not to be sad. Celebrate his life coming to a close. Randy mentioned Krishnamurti's quote about a little piece of everyone dying when he dies. Something else is true -- for those whom Randy touched, a little piece of Randy lives on in each of us.
We all will die. That is a sober truth. The question is how many of us live? Very few people are blessed to know, with great predictability, the amount of time he or she has to live. Most of us have no clue when we will die, and that tends to make us have no sense of priority when it comes to living. We keep putting things off, until we are given notice of our approaching death. Randy knew that he could no longer put off the important things in life, and he took action to live each day to the fullest, with mostly, the thought of others in mind. I don't think that most people would be able to handle a death sentence in the manner which Randy did. That family probably bought stock in Kleenex, shedding many tears as they were living Randy's last moments, but they probably also watched a lot of sunsets, enjoyed meals together, and celebrated life to the fullest. Life is filled with ups and downs if you are living it right. The lows really elevate the highs. I cannot help but to believe that Randy wouldn't have taken on this Lecture to his children, if he had not had terminal cancer. I also think that he would not have received the notoriety had he just been another person. It could be said that Randy's cancer, has elevated us a little, and if it had not been for that, we wouldn't have come to know and admire him as such a caring and selfless person.
BTW, I love the story about him pouring soda on the back seat of his brand new car to show his sister's children that "things" weren't important, though people were. What is something that you enjoyed or learned from Randy and his family?