SJ, very good post, I bow to your knowledge. That was very good advice to someone and hopefully many will follow.
A couple of things. Have someone take your swimsuit photo today. Study the photo of yourself and envision which physical attributes you want to change about yourself. Keep that vision with you at all times. Place the photo in a drawer and forget about it. After 90 days, take that same swimsuit photo again. Dig out the older photo and note the difference.
Also, when you are working out, forget about reading a book or watching tv. (Listening to music could be okay.) When exercising, focus your attention on the muscles which you are stretching, relaxing, and contracting. See through your skin into your mind and muscles, and really focus on your muscles burning, creating new muscle tissue and burning fat.
I think it is really important to be able to see the future you. Don't expect to stand in front of the mirror and note immediate changes after working out. The truth is, that you will most likely notice your increase in strength prior to seeing a change in your physical appearance. Generally speaking, you need to work hard through the first 90 days before you will notice much of anything, other than pain, but when you do begin noticing the change in strength and looks, the changes are more noticeable, more often. One last bit of advice is to forget about the scales. Muscle weighs more than fat, and muscle burns fat, even after you finish working out. IMHO, way too many people focus on weight, rather than health. If you want to measure something, measure your strength -- keep a chart of how much you lift or how many reps you completed. Measure how your pants fit. Measure your percentage of body fat. These are far more important than your weight.