Anyone seen the "Meltdown on 30A"?

[sunspotbaby]

Geez and to think I moved here for the people. Other people obviously. :boxing:

See, you can be snarky. See how easy that was?

 

[Rudyjohn]

Kurt,

Have you wondered why so many members have left? Seriously, I wish I hadn't come back for a quick check in. Unfortunately this was the first thread at the top of the list & I opened it

Not great for those who pay to advertise here......

Later. Much later.........

~ Allison

 

[heartbren]

word

See, you can be snarky. See how easy that was?

I really like that word, snarky! I said I was a trainwreck and now I am not.We all have a bad day. I just thought the issue just really got personal as did some others. My only remaining thought is.... I apologized for my angry responses, but the BOSS (Kurt) has not. I guess that makes me a better person. He also deleted his original posts so no one can see how this started. How's that for snarly??? I really do like that word.

 

[heartbren]

Kurt,

Have you wondered why so many members have left? Seriously, I wish I hadn't come back for a quick check in. Unfortunately this was the first thread at the top of the list & I opened it

Not great for those who pay to advertise here......

Later. Much later.........

~ Allison

Wow! I don't know you, but thank you so much for saying what needed to be said and for your bravery in doing so!!!!

 

[Carol G]

Really interesting article: Overcoming The Role Of Victim Or Martyr | LIVESTRONG.COM

And I hate to point out the obvious heartbren, but since there are now so many posts, this thread is two pages long, so to see the original post, you have to go to the next page. And you quoted Kurt's short pier post in the very same post asking where it went. No posts have been removed from this thread. This thread which could have been fun, but is now a of its own. How many times have we seen it - people who have so much to complain about are guilty of the very thing they are complaining about in others. Reminds me of "remove the beam from your own eye..."

What happened to:

Not that I am in any way going to let this bother me - I have too much to do otherwise. Now can we stop this catty post and get back to being responsible, sensible adults and just state opinions about things that matter and not throw sarcastic remarks about people in as well? PLEASE!

I am done with this and I hope this is the end of it.

Here it is in plain English, if you still don't get it: Calling people names, using fighting emoticons and telling them they are mean and not good people because they don't see things your way is just as much bullying as anything else. People disagree, not everyone in the world is meant to be friends, and some people use humor to defuse tension. If you don't like it, fine, but don't pretend you are somehow above it while you continue to participate, because you are not. You are being equally as childish as those you accuse. Grow up.

Now, for real, I am done with this pathetic, banal "meltdown."

I will, however, continue to discuss the merits of melted cheese and the awesomeness of an Airstream devoted to selling melted cheeses, bread and soup, right here on 30A.

 

[heartbren]

Really interesting article: Overcoming The Role Of Victim Or Martyr | LIVESTRONG.COM

And I hate to point out the obvious heartbren, but since there are now so many posts, this thread is two pages long, so to see the original post, you have to go to the next page. And you quoted Kurt's short pier post in the very same post asking where it went. No posts have been removed from this thread. This thread which could have been fun, but is now a of its own. How many times have we seen it - people who have so much to complain about are guilty of the very thing they are complaining about in others. Reminds me of "remove the beam from your own eye..."

What happened to:



Here it is in plain English, if you still don't get it: Calling people names, using fighting emoticons and telling them they are mean and not good people because they don't see things your way is just as much bullying as anything else. People disagree, not everyone in the world is meant to be friends, and some people use humor to defuse tension. If you don't like it, fine, but don't pretend you are somehow above it while you continue to participate, because you are not. You are being equally as childish as those you accuse. Grow up.

Now, for real, I am done with this pathetic, banal "meltdown."

I will, however, continue to discuss the merits of melted cheese and the awesomeness of an Airstream devoted to selling melted cheeses, bread and soup, right here on 30A.

Well obviously I am much newer here since I don't realize there is another page. I have enough also, but I was the target originally. If you are done with it don't read it. I have no problem with anyone commenting on The Restaurant "The Meltdown", but that was used sarcastically re: me in the beginning. You are a trip to. You must have missed a lot of this because from the beginning. I am not the one calling names or expect everyone to agree with anything I said in the beginning. I did as everyone else did post what information I had and there are some "Right" people which means they have to be right. I could care less but did not appreciate being attacked no matter they say I was not. I was just starting to be a little lighthearted and silly as others have been and you had to chime in and blame me for this?? Did you not read the post before yours???? As far as I was concerned in the last two posts it was over and I was trying to lighten things up as the snarky person asked me to. She was right and I did and now you are attacking me. Get a life. I am not a victim anywhere in life, my life is good, it is the few people on here that are putting somewhat of a damper on it. I am however helping others that are victims of what life is throwing their way and they have no control over it. Such angy people on here. You should not post when angry remember or did you miss that to? This has been so rediculous that my laptop could not take anymore and it quit working. :funn:Maybe it will work again when people quit responding negativly. The little faces and train, etc. are on here specially for that purpose and I was trying to be a little funny. That does not work either. You just can't please everyone.

 

[heartbren]

Really interesting article: Overcoming The Role Of Victim Or Martyr | LIVESTRONG.COM

And I hate to point out the obvious heartbren, but since there are now so many posts, this thread is two pages long, so to see the original post, you have to go to the next page. And you quoted Kurt's short pier post in the very same post asking where it went. No posts have been removed from this thread. This thread which could have been fun, but is now a of its own. How many times have we seen it - people who have so much to complain about are guilty of the very thing they are complaining about in others. Reminds me of "remove the beam from your own eye..."

What happened to:



Here it is in plain English, if you still don't get it: Calling people names, using fighting emoticons and telling them they are mean and not good people because they don't see things your way is just as much bullying as anything else. People disagree, not everyone in the world is meant to be friends, and some people use humor to defuse tension. If you don't like it, fine, but don't pretend you are somehow above it while you continue to participate, because you are not. You are being equally as childish as those you accuse. Grow up.

Now, for real, I am done with this pathetic, banal "meltdown."

I will, however, continue to discuss the merits of melted cheese and the awesomeness of an Airstream devoted to selling melted cheeses, bread and soup, right here on 30A.

Oh and you did not read the pier part correctly. I meant that was the only one I saw left and it was not nice either and not directed at me so you tell me who is so mean.

 

[heartbren]

Apology

I really like that word, snarky! I said I was a trainwreck and now I am not.We all have a bad day. I just thought the issue just really got personal as did some others. My only remaining thought is.... I apologized for my angry responses, but the BOSS (Kurt) has not. I guess that makes me a better person. He also deleted his original posts so no one can see how this started. How's that for snarly??? I really do like that word.

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I want to apologize since I got it wrong about him deleting his posts. Obviously I am newer to this b/c I did not realize it just went to another page. Sorry about that.

 

[scooterbug44]

I was starting to think maybe we were mean and felt bad ................... then I read your last 6 rambling posts and I am over it. :roll:

The martyr bit gets old, as does the whining and MANY posts about it.

Learn from it, move on, and have some fun already.

 

[Miss Kitty]

Really, come on, please stop!