Anyone seen the "Meltdown on 30A"?

[heartbren]

don't get it

I was starting to think maybe we were mean and felt bad ................... then I read your last 6 rambling posts and I am over it. :roll:

The martyr bit gets old, as does the whining and MANY posts about it.

Learn from it, move on, and have some fun already.

I was lightening up in my last few posts, but it seems, as I did, ya'll are taking it wrong. The little faces, etc. were part of me being silly as was requested and then cam the negative one. I am not playing martyr, just wish people would let me move on when I try to. Seems my using the smilies faces made someone think I was being mean. Everyone just thinks I am angry and being mean. I even joked about my laptop. I guess I can't joke like everyone else? I don't know. I hate when people think they know what you are thinking. If everyone would mind their business, this would be over. I don't know where you get the martyr bit, but wrong person. O.K. I will try one more time to be silly (and I also am a sarcastic joker as the others on here) DO NOT REPLY TO THIS MAIL I cannot remember the rest of what emails say when I get some like that. Lighten up, I have.

 

[heartbren]

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Really, come on, please stop!

Hey Miss Kitty. I don't know if I ever told you how much I like your avatar. Changing the subject may work and it may not, but I really do like the kitty with the green glasses and purple wig. I have 3 cats so I love kitties.

 

[Rita]

Really interesting article: Overcoming The Role Of Victim Or Martyr | LIVESTRONG.COM

And I hate to point out the obvious heartbren, but since there are now so many posts, this thread is two pages long, so to see the original post, you have to go to the next page. And you quoted Kurt's short pier post in the very same post asking where it went. No posts have been removed from this thread. This thread which could have been fun, but is now a of its own. How many times have we seen it - people who have so much to complain about are guilty of the very thing they are complaining about in others. Reminds me of "remove the beam from your own eye..."

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Not that I am in any way going to let this bother me - I have too much to do otherwise. Now can we stop this catty post and get back to being responsible, sensible adults and just state opinions about things that matter and not throw sarcastic remarks about people in as well? PLEASE!
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Originally Posted by heartbren
I am done with this and I hope this is the end of it.




Here it is in plain English, if you still don't get it: Calling people names, using fighting emoticons and telling them they are mean and not good people because they don't see things your way is just as much bullying as anything else. People disagree, not everyone in the world is meant to be friends, and some people use humor to defuse tension. If you don't like it, fine, but don't pretend you are somehow above it while you continue to participate, because you are not. You are being equally as childish as those you accuse. Grow up.

Now, for real, I am done with this pathetic, banal "meltdown."

I will, however, continue to discuss the merits of melted cheese and the awesomeness of an Airstream devoted to selling melted cheeses, bread and soup, right here on 30A.

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Thank you for this post Carol G.

I can't even bring myself to read rants.....

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[Bob]

If this is a warm welcome to The Meltdown...than I'm sure Jim appreciates the 'exposure' . 'Eek!' & 'laughing' is a great review for a new restaurant

Wow! 17,000 members and yet just a handful of posters...maybe you haven't warmed as many hearts as you'd like to think!?!

It's never a bad day for fishing, Kurt The sharks are ALWAYS hungry...care to join me for that long walk on a short pier? ;-)

Ahhh...it IS fun saying mean things! Now I understand!! Come on everybody! Join in the fun and let's see who can be the most wickedly mean!

lighten up. Kurt's a good person. how about you?

 

[Miss Kitty]

Hey Miss Kitty. I don't know if I ever told you how much I like your avatar. Changing the subject may work and it may not, but I really do like the kitty with the green glasses and purple wig. I have 3 cats so I love kitties. [/QUO

I can't close this thread, but my suggestion is that you stop posting here and let it die. Move on to another topic.

 

[Bob]

Kurt,

Have you wondered why so many members have left? Seriously, I wish I hadn't come back for a quick check in. Unfortunately this was the first thread at the top of the list & I opened it

Not great for those who pay to advertise here......

Later. Much later.........

~ Allison

come back! we need lively banter and musings

 

[DD]

Holy Crap on a Cracker!


Man, I love me some grilled cheese. Was the menu ever posted?

 

[bogieman]

Hey Miss Kitty. I don't know if I ever told you how much I like your avatar. Changing the subject may work and it may not, but I really do like the kitty with the green glasses and purple wig. I have 3 cats so I love kitties. [/QUO

I can't close this thread, but my suggestion is that you stop posting here and let it die. Move on to another topic.

Guess you heard dat. mE. Ow.

 

[salidaco]

Once again...


WoWZa

Let's just say it has been a stressful 9 months for everyone here...

 

[heartbren]

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Hey Miss Kitty. I don't know if I ever told you how much I like your avatar. Changing the subject may work and it may not, but I really do like the kitty with the green glasses and purple wig. I have 3 cats so I love kitties. [/QUO

I can't close this thread, but my suggestion is that you stop posting here and let it die. Move on to another topic.

I was letting it die and not being sarcastic about your avatar - the cute cat you use. I think others need to let it die as I just tried with my last message. I did move to another topic! I suppose you thought I was being catty. This has gotten way out of control and I can tell you I did not start this stupid thread someone else did (no names) and someone decided to mention my name as to who they were referring to. Did you read what some of the other people said that were on here earlier? It named names not me. Night, night and I hope everyone else goes to sleep also. I have also talked with Carol via email and she is not happy about this either. I suggest you talk with her about what she thinks about who and how this started.