Gee, Cork...
I also have a bad girl side, but people have to know me longer to see it...and it doesn't involve real estate (or anything I could get arrested for!)
Shelly, there's a woman who has written several books about small homes. The ideas are great, though some of the homes are over 2000 square feet, which doesn't seem small at all to me. I'd see a small home as 1500 square feet or under.
I read something years ago that said the problem with very large homes is that it encourages family members not to interact with each other as much as small homes do (unless you make the effort of course). We have a regular size old (1912) two-story house (not big/not small) and, aside from liking the old look of the house, the thing I like best next is that wherever the kids are, I can hear them. One of my daughters will go to her room (right upstairs from my favorite chair) and I can hear her dancing (and she doesn't know I can hear her). I think that's so cute and imagine that she's dancing in front of the mirror. When I'm downstairs, I can hear the kids when they sing in the shower, too. Yech, when the boyfriends start coming around, we'll hear those kissing sounds, too...