I am pissed AL, you are going to end up a better BordCol parent, and pack leader than I ever hoped to be. 
I guess some of us were born parents and pack leaders!!

You've had your two for a long time and they are both still alive, so you are doing something right, my friend
I have found the one thing Shy dislikes more than Lexie(she is really conflicted, bullies her, but whines when she is gone) and it is a glass of water. The trainer told me I should have doused them this morning with water, when they got into in the kitchen and then acted like nothing happened. I, before knowing this just screamed "UUUGGGGGG".

After about three more tussles today, I calmly walked in the living room and poured a glass on water on their heads. The broke apart and looked at me like I was crazy. I behaved like nothing happened. Ask if they wanted to go outside in a happy voice and we then went outside and they played. The trainer also told me if they were not breaking skin or bleeding they had a 99 percent chance of working this out with in a month.
They are now sharing space in the bedroom(shys room) with no issue. Shy does not like getting wet

Water, good to drink and for breaking up the puppy fights. It really does cool them off
