Let me give you vacation renter's perspective- but I may not be a typical renter. (OK- I know I am not)
Since day 1 of renting houses in Grayton, I have never expected there to be anything other than toilet paper and a roll of kitchen towels left for our use. We have stayed in some beautiful houses, and we have stayed in a few dumps, and none of these places had all these toiletries, cleaning supplies, DVDs,etc.
It is very nice that you, as owners, want to make your guests' experiences nice, but I look at it a bit differently- I am setting up house for a week. I have rented YOUR house, but I don't expect you to provide anything but the house, beds, sheets, towels, and basic dishes- a little more than a hotel, but in some ways a little less. We have always brought everything we need, and our friends are the same way. We have never played with the games (although we haven't been down there in bad weather, so maybe we would), the kids bring their own movies, and I even bring my own chef's knife and giant iced tea pitcher.
All that I ask is that the house is clean, the beds are "sleepable", the grill is not too nasty, the showers work well, and there is room for 3 bikes, a car, and a kayak.