andipandi said:What makes me so sad is I talked my husband into this. As hard as I work, he works even harder. I love south waltonand based this venture more on love than finanical advise. We are not able to travel there due to illness and work as much as we would like.
I am serious about any creative thoughts anyone would be so kind to share about what folks are doing who have a home they need to sell with an interest only loan(Please do not kick me --down already--got it dumb dumb dumb). It has not sold at $100K loss and it is not overpriced. We will work two jobs before we give it away. if we had flipped it immediately , we would have made a profit. But no we had to wait a year!!!
Here are some things I have considered:
Sell our primary home and live in a tent.![]()
Move the house from South Walton to our hometown and sell our primary . I guess the bank would not like that since we have a 300% mortgage now.
Or if everyone on the board and all the realtors, investors would go buy one piece of property in the area to reduce the inventory the market would improve.
As you can see my best thinking got me here.
AP,
Sorry to hear about your story--novices usually do break the #1 rule of money and investing, which is: "Think with your head, not your heart. " Believe it or not--some folks who walk on the shady side of investing/speculation actually rely on that "novice thought process" to make lots and lots of money.
Guilt over the situation is not going to solve the problem--its water under the bridge (you're certainly deserving of a very short Pity Party, but try to dispense with it as quickly as possible so you can start concentrating on finding a solution).
From what I've read, you really need to do some reading (about real estate and mortgages) and seek some solid professional financial advice quickly. Hopefully you can find a good finanical advisor, RE attorney, or CPA (maybe check with some doctors you trust) -- and make sure they don't steer you toward some snake oil salesman who is trying to sell annuities or whole life insurance (don't get me started on those folks! :roll: ).
Most folks are getting out from under IO loans by refinancing to a fixed, but it sounds as if this may not be an option for you. I applaud your courage in speaking up about your situation--the first step to tackling a problem is to admit you're aware of it in the first place, so you see, you ARE on your way to solving it. I sincerely wish you luck as you go forward.
and based this venture more on love than finanical advise. We are not able to travel there due to illness and work as much as we would like.
It reminded me of the time I went to a McDonalds several years ago with a line down the block at 5am--found out these people got up at 3am, grabbed their kids and stood in line for hours to buy Beanie Baby Meals!...AND they threw away the food (can't really fault them for that). Believe it or not...both types of ?investors? experienced the same mental thought process, just at opposite ends of the economic spectrum--fascinating stuff!
I am not alone. Smarter, wealthier people than us seem to be in the same shape over south walton real estate . I bet they may be reading at this very minute. Thank you for using your powers for good and not evil.